For some background information, I’ve never been able to have a orgasm during sex. I can make myself come, sometimes it thanks forever and it can be hard, other times I come very fast. When I first started to have sex I just figured that I was too nervous to orgasm and it will happen eventually. Well, it’s been over 2 years and I still haven’t been able to come during sex. But I’ve always lied about it to every guy I’ve been with to boost their ego. I know it’s bad to lie, but at this point I don’t think a guy will ever make me orgasm. And so when me and my boyfriend started dating I lied about it( he was also a virgin and didn’t really know what to do). But he has gotten so much better. The problem is that I fake my orgasms to make him happy. I think if I told him about this then he would understand and try to make me orgasm. But the thing is that I feel such a pressure to do it. I’ve been really close to coming when he goes down on me, but then it just disappears. I’m also afraid to talk to him about it, cuz then he will know that I lie about it every time. I do also feel really bad about lying to him. Should I tell him? (Also I’m going to add that I have had an orgasm while he’s watching, but then I’m doing it myself. It just doesn’t seem to happen when he tries to)…
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r/sex For some background information, I’ve never been able to have a orgasm during sex. I can make myself come, sometimes it thanks forever and it can be hard, other times I come very fast. When I first started to have sex I just figured that I was too nervous to orgasm and it will happen eventually. Well, it’s been over 2 years and I still haven’t been able to come during sex. But I’ve always lied about it to every guy I’ve been with to boost their ego. I know it’s bad to lie, but at this point I don’t think a guy will ever make me orgasm. And so when me and my boyfriend started dating I lied about it( he was also a virgin and didn’t really know what to do). But he has gotten so much better. The problem is that I fake my orgasms to make him happy. I think if I told him about this then he would understand and try to make me orgasm. But the thing is that I feel such a pressure to do it. I’ve been really close to coming when he goes down on me, but then it just disappears. I’m also afraid to talk to him about it, cuz then he will know that I lie about it every time. I do also feel really bad about lying to him. Should I tell him? (Also I’m going to add that I have had an orgasm while he’s watching, but then I’m doing it myself. It just doesn’t seem to happen when he tries to)… submitted by /u/Sailing_Diva [link] [comments]
For some background information, I’ve never been able to have a orgasm during sex. I can make myself come, sometimes it thanks forever and it can be hard, other times I come very fast. When I first started to have sex I just figured that I was too nervous to orgasm and it will happen eventually. Well, it’s been over 2 years and I still haven’t been able to come during sex. But I’ve always lied about it to every guy I’ve been with to boost their ego. I know it’s bad to lie, but at this point I don’t think a guy will ever make me orgasm. And so when me and my boyfriend started dating I lied about it( he was also a virgin and didn’t really know what to do). But he has gotten so much better. The problem is that I fake my orgasms to make him happy. I think if I told him about this then he would understand and try to make me orgasm. But the thing is that I feel such a pressure to do it. I’ve been really close to coming when he goes down on me, but then it just disappears. I’m also afraid to talk to him about it, cuz then he will know that I lie about it every time. I do also feel really bad about lying to him. Should I tell him? (Also I’m going to add that I have had an orgasm while he’s watching, but then I’m doing it myself. It just doesn’t seem to happen when he tries to)…
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