Basically if you’re not familiar with Madonna-whore complex, it’s when a man categorizes women in 2 groups: Madonna (pure, innocent, wife material) or Whore (sexually objectified, desirable, etc.)
I have a feeling my husband might have a Madonna whore complex with me.
We connect on so many levels, and we love each other. But there are certain things I wouldn’t share with him sexually, and it’s because of our close bond that I feel like being my true hyper-sexual self will almost “pervert” the divine connection we have
I remember one time we were doing something a little nasty in bed and he said “omg i cant do this to the future mother of my kids”
He also doesn’t like me to initiate. He initiates nearly every day, but if I initiate he isn’t in the mood. He told me it’s cuz he doesn’t want me to be super hyper sexual , he wants to feel like he’s the one who’s “taking”…
I have fears opening up to him about the things I want to do in bed because I don’t want him to judge me or be turned off. I have some really crazy fetishes going on in my head and I feel like the only way I can express them is alone/with porn.
I have good self control but I feel like one day I might cheat if I don’t fix this with my husband.
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r/sex Basically if you’re not familiar with Madonna-whore complex, it’s when a man categorizes women in 2 groups: Madonna (pure, innocent, wife material) or Whore (sexually objectified, desirable, etc.) I have a feeling my husband might have a Madonna whore complex with me. We connect on so many levels, and we love each other. But there are certain things I wouldn’t share with him sexually, and it’s because of our close bond that I feel like being my true hyper-sexual self will almost “pervert” the divine connection we have I remember one time we were doing something a little nasty in bed and he said “omg i cant do this to the future mother of my kids” He also doesn’t like me to initiate. He initiates nearly every day, but if I initiate he isn’t in the mood. He told me it’s cuz he doesn’t want me to be super hyper sexual , he wants to feel like he’s the one who’s “taking”… I have fears opening up to him about the things I want to do in bed because I don’t want him to judge me or be turned off. I have some really crazy fetishes going on in my head and I feel like the only way I can express them is alone/with porn. I have good self control but I feel like one day I might cheat if I don’t fix this with my husband. submitted by /u/Universetalkz [link] [comments]
Basically if you’re not familiar with Madonna-whore complex, it’s when a man categorizes women in 2 groups: Madonna (pure, innocent, wife material) or Whore (sexually objectified, desirable, etc.)
I have a feeling my husband might have a Madonna whore complex with me.
We connect on so many levels, and we love each other. But there are certain things I wouldn’t share with him sexually, and it’s because of our close bond that I feel like being my true hyper-sexual self will almost “pervert” the divine connection we have
I remember one time we were doing something a little nasty in bed and he said “omg i cant do this to the future mother of my kids”
He also doesn’t like me to initiate. He initiates nearly every day, but if I initiate he isn’t in the mood. He told me it’s cuz he doesn’t want me to be super hyper sexual , he wants to feel like he’s the one who’s “taking”…
I have fears opening up to him about the things I want to do in bed because I don’t want him to judge me or be turned off. I have some really crazy fetishes going on in my head and I feel like the only way I can express them is alone/with porn.
I have good self control but I feel like one day I might cheat if I don’t fix this with my husband.
submitted by /u/Universetalkz
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