So i just sent my (F22) bf (M20) a little info on why i want to be tied up and submissive in the bedroom, but i kinda want more tips on how to start the conversation about it. Like when we’re seeing face to face! (Long distance) i told him that because i really need to be in control of my life all the time, it’s so refreshing and empowering to be tied up and “forced” to submit in the bedroom because i can give the control finally away.
I trust him so much and i love him so fucking much, but our sex life is really vanilla, and i would love some spice even “only” now and then. I just want to give the control away so bad. I just want to feel and ignore everything else. I need to feel the control on someone i trust instead of me.
So basically how do i explain this to him and do you have any good pointers to say? Like how do i explain this need to him.
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r/sex So i just sent my (F22) bf (M20) a little info on why i want to be tied up and submissive in the bedroom, but i kinda want more tips on how to start the conversation about it. Like when we’re seeing face to face! (Long distance) i told him that because i really need to be in control of my life all the time, it’s so refreshing and empowering to be tied up and “forced” to submit in the bedroom because i can give the control finally away. I trust him so much and i love him so fucking much, but our sex life is really vanilla, and i would love some spice even “only” now and then. I just want to give the control away so bad. I just want to feel and ignore everything else. I need to feel the control on someone i trust instead of me. So basically how do i explain this to him and do you have any good pointers to say? Like how do i explain this need to him. submitted by /u/Roneskiponeski [link] [comments]
So i just sent my (F22) bf (M20) a little info on why i want to be tied up and submissive in the bedroom, but i kinda want more tips on how to start the conversation about it. Like when we’re seeing face to face! (Long distance) i told him that because i really need to be in control of my life all the time, it’s so refreshing and empowering to be tied up and “forced” to submit in the bedroom because i can give the control finally away.
I trust him so much and i love him so fucking much, but our sex life is really vanilla, and i would love some spice even “only” now and then. I just want to give the control away so bad. I just want to feel and ignore everything else. I need to feel the control on someone i trust instead of me.
So basically how do i explain this to him and do you have any good pointers to say? Like how do i explain this need to him.
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