Having trouble accepting what my partner tells me it is. /u/No_Echo2351 Sex

Hi all (m39) I’ve been with my gf(33) for 3 months now. Sex feels great, we’re into each other and open about our intimacy. Recently I asked her what’s the longest amount of time she lasted having sex. She responded 4hrs(3rds) and had to ice her vagina from all the friction. Said she came about 10 times! Ever since that happened I haven’t felt so good about our intimacy, I feel as if I’m not enough for her. We last on average about 10-30 min from start to finish and most times I don’t go more than 1 round. Recently I’ve been having trouble staying erect. I’m average size and not so thick, I sometimes get caught up thinking I’m the preferred guy because of how I treat her, but not the guy she prefers in bed.

Hi all (m39) I’ve been with my gf(33) for 3 months now. Sex feels great, we’re into each other and open about our intimacy. Recently I asked her what’s the longest amount of time she lasted having sex. She responded 4hrs(3rds) and had to ice her vagina from all the friction. Said she came about 10 times! Ever since that happened I haven’t felt so good about our intimacy, I feel as if I’m not enough for her. We last on average about 10-30 min from start to finish and most times I don’t go more than 1 round. Recently I’ve been having trouble staying erect. I’m average size and not so thick, I sometimes get caught up thinking I’m the preferred guy because of how I treat her, but not the guy she prefers in bed.