Finally had my first sex /u/Emotional-Cable1445 Sex

Yesterday i had put up a query in this sub about what to do for today as me (m23) and my partner (f23) were planning for the deed 😉. So, it went quite good only. Many of you have given me really great advices, which i really tried on, and it worked to some extent, as far as i can think about my experience today.

We both went out along with our common friends, telling our parents we will just be going out to the churches nearby to see, as today is christmas. So after meeting we went straight to a far away medishop, where there were lesser chances of the shopkeeper knowing us previously, as this might have become awkward otherwise, to buy a condom.

We hopped into a nearby hotel room and did as planned .

As many of you told to prioritise her getting wet at first then go for penetration, i did likewise.

One thing i noticed was that, she was much more worried about our mating than i was, but I did a lot of talking and comforting before even kissing and all of that, to make her take it easy and making her believe in me.❤️

After that she only intiated kissing me first. Then we just went on with kisses and cuddles, foreplaying. In went for almost 20 min i guess, after that we dont know how, we just dozzed off💤, in each other’s arms. 😅

We woke up suddenly, and started laughing about what we just did. I was then far more relaxed than i was yesterday. I then just took the lead, and pulled herself towards myself and started doing the foreplaying again. Undressing, kissing, licking every part of her body, lips > neck > armpits > boobs > navel > clit. The last one was difficult.

Initially she was hesitant about me going down on her, as this is considered taboo in this part of the world 😅. I convinced her somehow and to be honest, i didnt like the taste down there. It was like salty and something i wont like in my mouth. I tried fingering her, she felt good. I did it untill she told me that she came. I dont know whether she said that too keep my heart or i really made her cum. But overall licking and all went well for me. I didn’t tell her to suck my dick and she too didn’t showed any interest, so I prefered not to tell her.

I got my condom on and about to penetrate. But it was a bit difficult for both us, as she was feeling pain, when i was trying to penetrate. She was all wet down there, slippy-slimy😅, but still it was causing difficulty. But finally were able to.

It was the missionary position we opted for, so that we could communicate well and see eachother’s reaction on our actions. She told me to go slow and did likewise without rushing. Maybe this could be a reason i didn’t busted too early, as few of you were pointing it out. But yeah the penetration lasted for about 30 min i guess, before i busted out. The whole time while penetration i was trying to do dirty talk with her, but instead of making both us more aroused, it was sounding cringy and she was chuckling in between and was telling me to stop.😅

One thing more, while penetration she just cried out of no where and hugged me like never before, and told me she loves me and to never leave her alone. This made me fill confused and happy at the same time. Confused because whether she cried out of pain or it was an emotional outburst. I asked, she said nothing and continued moaning.

At last, we just took a bath together headed back to our homes. We did only one round as we were getting late. Overall it was a great experience. Not my best performance and her offcourse 😅. We are hoping to do better in future.

Lesson i got : sex is not just about physical connection. I felt a deeper connection with her more like on a spiritual level, where i was trying to feel her thoughts and just get inside her mind and be a single body, both of us together inside.

We would explore more things soon. Would learn about different kinks too.

Finally, thankyou all.

Yesterday i had put up a query in this sub about what to do for today as me (m23) and my partner (f23) were planning for the deed 😉. So, it went quite good only. Many of you have given me really great advices, which i really tried on, and it worked to some extent, as far as i can think about my experience today.

We both went out along with our common friends, telling our parents we will just be going out to the churches nearby to see, as today is christmas. So after meeting we went straight to a far away medishop, where there were lesser chances of the shopkeeper knowing us previously, as this might have become awkward otherwise, to buy a condom.

We hopped into a nearby hotel room and did as planned .

As many of you told to prioritise her getting wet at first then go for penetration, i did likewise.

One thing i noticed was that, she was much more worried about our mating than i was, but I did a lot of talking and comforting before even kissing and all of that, to make her take it easy and making her believe in me.❤️

After that she only intiated kissing me first. Then we just went on with kisses and cuddles, foreplaying. In went for almost 20 min i guess, after that we dont know how, we just dozzed off💤, in each other’s arms. 😅

We woke up suddenly, and started laughing about what we just did. I was then far more relaxed than i was yesterday. I then just took the lead, and pulled herself towards myself and started doing the foreplaying again. Undressing, kissing, licking every part of her body, lips > neck > armpits > boobs > navel > clit. The last one was difficult.

Initially she was hesitant about me going down on her, as this is considered taboo in this part of the world 😅. I convinced her somehow and to be honest, i didnt like the taste down there. It was like salty and something i wont like in my mouth. I tried fingering her, she felt good. I did it untill she told me that she came. I dont know whether she said that too keep my heart or i really made her cum. But overall licking and all went well for me. I didn’t tell her to suck my dick and she too didn’t showed any interest, so I prefered not to tell her.

I got my condom on and about to penetrate. But it was a bit difficult for both us, as she was feeling pain, when i was trying to penetrate. She was all wet down there, slippy-slimy😅, but still it was causing difficulty. But finally were able to.

It was the missionary position we opted for, so that we could communicate well and see eachother’s reaction on our actions. She told me to go slow and did likewise without rushing. Maybe this could be a reason i didn’t busted too early, as few of you were pointing it out. But yeah the penetration lasted for about 30 min i guess, before i busted out. The whole time while penetration i was trying to do dirty talk with her, but instead of making both us more aroused, it was sounding cringy and she was chuckling in between and was telling me to stop.😅

One thing more, while penetration she just cried out of no where and hugged me like never before, and told me she loves me and to never leave her alone. This made me fill confused and happy at the same time. Confused because whether she cried out of pain or it was an emotional outburst. I asked, she said nothing and continued moaning.

At last, we just took a bath together headed back to our homes. We did only one round as we were getting late. Overall it was a great experience. Not my best performance and her offcourse 😅. We are hoping to do better in future.

Lesson i got : sex is not just about physical connection. I felt a deeper connection with her more like on a spiritual level, where i was trying to feel her thoughts and just get inside her mind and be a single body, both of us together inside.

We would explore more things soon. Would learn about different kinks too.

Finally, thankyou all.