For context: I am 23, only have had 2 boyfriends in my life. I am currently with my second boyfriend (hopeful he’s the one).. my first relationship was a toxic abusive 8 year relationship. This second relationship I am 6 months in and is wonderful. I have had 7 partners total, 5/7 were casual hook up partners. With said hookup partners, I found myself letting loose with sex. Confident, bold, being verbal, talking dirty, doing all sorts of positions. Not worrying “AS MUCH” about my body.. It started that way with each of my boyfriends, but slowly overtime becomes more boring because I get shy. I don’t want to ride, I don’t want to let them see me naked, I hate the sound of my moans etc. is this just a simple case of relationship sex can get boring and u have to constantly switch it up? Or is my self esteem issues just kicking in and I’m becoming nervous. My take is that because I know am attached, and have feelings for this person, I value their opinion of me more. So now I am overthinking my performance and body, and the way I look?? Anyone experience this??
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r/sex For context: I am 23, only have had 2 boyfriends in my life. I am currently with my second boyfriend (hopeful he’s the one).. my first relationship was a toxic abusive 8 year relationship. This second relationship I am 6 months in and is wonderful. I have had 7 partners total, 5/7 were casual hook up partners. With said hookup partners, I found myself letting loose with sex. Confident, bold, being verbal, talking dirty, doing all sorts of positions. Not worrying “AS MUCH” about my body.. It started that way with each of my boyfriends, but slowly overtime becomes more boring because I get shy. I don’t want to ride, I don’t want to let them see me naked, I hate the sound of my moans etc. is this just a simple case of relationship sex can get boring and u have to constantly switch it up? Or is my self esteem issues just kicking in and I’m becoming nervous. My take is that because I know am attached, and have feelings for this person, I value their opinion of me more. So now I am overthinking my performance and body, and the way I look?? Anyone experience this?? submitted by /u/trufruity [link] [comments]
For context: I am 23, only have had 2 boyfriends in my life. I am currently with my second boyfriend (hopeful he’s the one).. my first relationship was a toxic abusive 8 year relationship. This second relationship I am 6 months in and is wonderful. I have had 7 partners total, 5/7 were casual hook up partners. With said hookup partners, I found myself letting loose with sex. Confident, bold, being verbal, talking dirty, doing all sorts of positions. Not worrying “AS MUCH” about my body.. It started that way with each of my boyfriends, but slowly overtime becomes more boring because I get shy. I don’t want to ride, I don’t want to let them see me naked, I hate the sound of my moans etc. is this just a simple case of relationship sex can get boring and u have to constantly switch it up? Or is my self esteem issues just kicking in and I’m becoming nervous. My take is that because I know am attached, and have feelings for this person, I value their opinion of me more. So now I am overthinking my performance and body, and the way I look?? Anyone experience this??
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