Am I initiating sex too much? /u/celestial_sensualist Sex

Hi everyone. Very personal question so pls have mercy in the comments 😩😂. Both my husband and I are in our mid twenties (married for 6 years). For context, I never had good sex before him, so much so that I thought something was wrong with me or that I was asexual. I was wrong. My now husband really unlocked EVERYTHING for me in that department and kind of made me addicted to sex w/him to the point where my ‘drive’ kind of now exceeds his (which was/is still high to begin with). Basically he is…wow. Though I’m wondering if me being all over him all the time is making me less mysterious/enticing to him because I’m making it too easy. He’s gotten a little complacent when it comes to initiating it, which makes me feel less desired & digs at my confidence (though only slightly). He still shows his love via gifts, trips, dinners, flowers, calling me even when he’s at work despite me rarely calling him etc. I’ve spoken to him about him initiating it more, but honestly I think I’m maybe just not giving him a chance/space to want it first? Could that be a problem? Or is this okay?

If anyone was wondering abt the frequency of this whole thing, it’s pretty much daily. Occasionally twice/day. The longest we go without is maybe 3-4 days max & even that frustrates me.

I know it probably sounds a bit out of hand but everyone’s got a thing, right? Like some people are addicted to food, or shopping etc etc. in that context it sounds less crazy right? Right? 😳

Hi everyone. Very personal question so pls have mercy in the comments 😩😂. Both my husband and I are in our mid twenties (married for 6 years). For context, I never had good sex before him, so much so that I thought something was wrong with me or that I was asexual. I was wrong. My now husband really unlocked EVERYTHING for me in that department and kind of made me addicted to sex w/him to the point where my ‘drive’ kind of now exceeds his (which was/is still high to begin with). Basically he is…wow. Though I’m wondering if me being all over him all the time is making me less mysterious/enticing to him because I’m making it too easy. He’s gotten a little complacent when it comes to initiating it, which makes me feel less desired & digs at my confidence (though only slightly). He still shows his love via gifts, trips, dinners, flowers, calling me even when he’s at work despite me rarely calling him etc. I’ve spoken to him about him initiating it more, but honestly I think I’m maybe just not giving him a chance/space to want it first? Could that be a problem? Or is this okay?

If anyone was wondering abt the frequency of this whole thing, it’s pretty much daily. Occasionally twice/day. The longest we go without is maybe 3-4 days max & even that frustrates me.

I know it probably sounds a bit out of hand but everyone’s got a thing, right? Like some people are addicted to food, or shopping etc etc. in that context it sounds less crazy right? Right? 😳