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How to improve someone’s kissing?

I, (F, 25) have been dating my SO (M, 27) for about 4 months now, and mostly, things are great. But a large problem I have is his kissing. He only ever very lightly pecks me on the lips, less than a second, and not often. Even when we are intimate, he just does that over and over for maybe a minute or two, before initiating intimacy and we dont really kiss again unless mid-session i say “kiss me.” These tend to be slightly longer (few seconds of closed lip kisses.) Even when I try to incorporate tongue very gradually he doesn’t really respond, opening his mouth slightly but not really kissing me and definitley not using tongue back. Its worth mentioning that I always make sure I have clean, fresh breath when we are intimate and I try to ‘make out’ with him. I have also been told by most partners that I am a great kisser, and previous relationships have all included passionate kisses, so I am used to medium-pressure closed lip smooches often and French kissing as well as the previously mentioned mixed in during intimate time. My question is, what are some techniques I can try to subtly ‘improve’ his kissing and achieve those passionate make out sessions I desire? And if these don’t work, how should I talk to him/phrase things about my dissatisfaction with his kissing style that isn’t negative, and potentially ask for more passionate kisses and make-outs?

TL;DR – Boyfriend, (M, 27) only lightly closed lip kisses his girlfriend (F, 25) even during intimacy, in which case these kisses go on for a minute or two, any attempts to use tongue aren’t responded to. Asking how to improve his kissing style subtly and in this fails, talk to him about his style of kissing and ask for more passionate make out sessions and use of tongue.

How to improve someone’s kissing?

I, (F, 25) have been dating my SO (M, 27) for about 4 months now, and mostly, things are great. But a large problem I have is his kissing. He only ever very lightly pecks me on the lips, less than a second, and not often. Even when we are intimate, he just does that over and over for maybe a minute or two, before initiating intimacy and we dont really kiss again unless mid-session i say “kiss me.” These tend to be slightly longer (few seconds of closed lip kisses.) Even when I try to incorporate tongue very gradually he doesn’t really respond, opening his mouth slightly but not really kissing me and definitley not using tongue back. Its worth mentioning that I always make sure I have clean, fresh breath when we are intimate and I try to ‘make out’ with him. I have also been told by most partners that I am a great kisser, and previous relationships have all included passionate kisses, so I am used to medium-pressure closed lip smooches often and French kissing as well as the previously mentioned mixed in during intimate time. My question is, what are some techniques I can try to subtly ‘improve’ his kissing and achieve those passionate make out sessions I desire? And if these don’t work, how should I talk to him/phrase things about my dissatisfaction with his kissing style that isn’t negative, and potentially ask for more passionate kisses and make-outs?

TL;DR – Boyfriend, (M, 27) only lightly closed lip kisses his girlfriend (F, 25) even during intimacy, in which case these kisses go on for a minute or two, any attempts to use tongue aren’t responded to. Asking how to improve his kissing style subtly and in this fails, talk to him about his style of kissing and ask for more passionate make out sessions and use of tongue.