Hi all, I’m very new to having sex,(only had it 3 times, the past 2 with this new sexual partner) She says that she doesn’t like receiving oral and it doesn’t do much for her, and that her preference is PIV with clit stimulation. My issue is, I’m not sure what I can do to figure out a better way to get her to orgasm without lasting longer.
I haven’t been able to get myself to last longer at all. I can do it when I masturbate, and can last for around 10-15 minutes, sometimes longer, but even when masturbating, i notice that if i get really aroused i get close almost immediately and can’t control it, whereas for a while before that there’s no buildup. That’s 1 thing I want to try to understand, but it’s by no means the only solution I want to have, I don’t want to just last longer and think that’s the way to get her off.
In addition to all that, she also doesn’t really enjoy vibrators too much. I’m wondering what I can do, what techniques there are, anything at all that can help me to pleasure her the way she deserves?
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r/sex Hi all, I’m very new to having sex,(only had it 3 times, the past 2 with this new sexual partner) She says that she doesn’t like receiving oral and it doesn’t do much for her, and that her preference is PIV with clit stimulation. My issue is, I’m not sure what I can do to figure out a better way to get her to orgasm without lasting longer. I haven’t been able to get myself to last longer at all. I can do it when I masturbate, and can last for around 10-15 minutes, sometimes longer, but even when masturbating, i notice that if i get really aroused i get close almost immediately and can’t control it, whereas for a while before that there’s no buildup. That’s 1 thing I want to try to understand, but it’s by no means the only solution I want to have, I don’t want to just last longer and think that’s the way to get her off. In addition to all that, she also doesn’t really enjoy vibrators too much. I’m wondering what I can do, what techniques there are, anything at all that can help me to pleasure her the way she deserves? submitted by /u/VisualAd4775 [link] [comments]
Hi all, I’m very new to having sex,(only had it 3 times, the past 2 with this new sexual partner) She says that she doesn’t like receiving oral and it doesn’t do much for her, and that her preference is PIV with clit stimulation. My issue is, I’m not sure what I can do to figure out a better way to get her to orgasm without lasting longer.
I haven’t been able to get myself to last longer at all. I can do it when I masturbate, and can last for around 10-15 minutes, sometimes longer, but even when masturbating, i notice that if i get really aroused i get close almost immediately and can’t control it, whereas for a while before that there’s no buildup. That’s 1 thing I want to try to understand, but it’s by no means the only solution I want to have, I don’t want to just last longer and think that’s the way to get her off.
In addition to all that, she also doesn’t really enjoy vibrators too much. I’m wondering what I can do, what techniques there are, anything at all that can help me to pleasure her the way she deserves?
submitted by /u/VisualAd4775
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