I (22F) feel like I am way too old to be having this problem. I recently got out of a relationship so I’ve been having a little fun (safely, of course). I’ve run into an issue a few times (by that, I mean every time) where every person inevitably asks me what I like and my mind goes blank. I usually just respond with, “I like making the other person feel good,” and hope they don’t add anything. They always do. “Everyone has preferences! What are your favorite positions/ what do you like head-wise/ what are your kinks and turn ons?” These questions really stress me out. Today, I was dirty texting a guy and said I almost came while he was giving me head (a rarity given we have only hooked up a handful of times). He asked what specifically almost made me cum and I was like, “To be frank, I don’t think I could tell you if my life depended on it.” Is this normal?? I self pleasure and have had a lot of hookups + two long-term relationships. I have no clue what I like and when someone does something I like, I have no clue what specifically they did. Does anyone have any advice?
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r/sex I (22F) feel like I am way too old to be having this problem. I recently got out of a relationship so I’ve been having a little fun (safely, of course). I’ve run into an issue a few times (by that, I mean every time) where every person inevitably asks me what I like and my mind goes blank. I usually just respond with, “I like making the other person feel good,” and hope they don’t add anything. They always do. “Everyone has preferences! What are your favorite positions/ what do you like head-wise/ what are your kinks and turn ons?” These questions really stress me out. Today, I was dirty texting a guy and said I almost came while he was giving me head (a rarity given we have only hooked up a handful of times). He asked what specifically almost made me cum and I was like, “To be frank, I don’t think I could tell you if my life depended on it.” Is this normal?? I self pleasure and have had a lot of hookups + two long-term relationships. I have no clue what I like and when someone does something I like, I have no clue what specifically they did. Does anyone have any advice? submitted by /u/Difficult_Papaya_976 [link] [comments]
I (22F) feel like I am way too old to be having this problem. I recently got out of a relationship so I’ve been having a little fun (safely, of course). I’ve run into an issue a few times (by that, I mean every time) where every person inevitably asks me what I like and my mind goes blank. I usually just respond with, “I like making the other person feel good,” and hope they don’t add anything. They always do. “Everyone has preferences! What are your favorite positions/ what do you like head-wise/ what are your kinks and turn ons?” These questions really stress me out. Today, I was dirty texting a guy and said I almost came while he was giving me head (a rarity given we have only hooked up a handful of times). He asked what specifically almost made me cum and I was like, “To be frank, I don’t think I could tell you if my life depended on it.” Is this normal?? I self pleasure and have had a lot of hookups + two long-term relationships. I have no clue what I like and when someone does something I like, I have no clue what specifically they did. Does anyone have any advice?
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