My partner and I have been playing guesswork on what the other one likes in bed for 5yrs.
This week I sat them down and said “our 5 year anniversary is coming up, and I still don’t know EXACTLY what you like in bed!”
Their response- “I know because I don’t know what I like until I feel it”
Me- okay so here’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to create a note in my iPhone and insert a table with titles like “absolutely” “fuck no” and “possibly”. Then I’m going to send you a list of kinks and fetishes and want you to list EVERY single one of them in that table at their corresponding location to how you feel. On the “maybe” section tell me why it’s a maybe and the circumstances you’d like to see if you like it or not.
We had the best sex of our relationship last night because of this little bit of communication.
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r/sex My partner and I have been playing guesswork on what the other one likes in bed for 5yrs. This week I sat them down and said “our 5 year anniversary is coming up, and I still don’t know EXACTLY what you like in bed!” Their response- “I know because I don’t know what I like until I feel it” Me- okay so here’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to create a note in my iPhone and insert a table with titles like “absolutely” “fuck no” and “possibly”. Then I’m going to send you a list of kinks and fetishes and want you to list EVERY single one of them in that table at their corresponding location to how you feel. On the “maybe” section tell me why it’s a maybe and the circumstances you’d like to see if you like it or not. We had the best sex of our relationship last night because of this little bit of communication. submitted by /u/No-Construction638 [link] [comments]
My partner and I have been playing guesswork on what the other one likes in bed for 5yrs.
This week I sat them down and said “our 5 year anniversary is coming up, and I still don’t know EXACTLY what you like in bed!”
Their response- “I know because I don’t know what I like until I feel it”
Me- okay so here’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to create a note in my iPhone and insert a table with titles like “absolutely” “fuck no” and “possibly”. Then I’m going to send you a list of kinks and fetishes and want you to list EVERY single one of them in that table at their corresponding location to how you feel. On the “maybe” section tell me why it’s a maybe and the circumstances you’d like to see if you like it or not.
We had the best sex of our relationship last night because of this little bit of communication.
submitted by /u/No-Construction638
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