I a 19 year old female own a few vibrators, and my boyfriend is incredibly uncomfortable by it. I just told him I bought a new vibrator, and he got actually angry with me. For context I always make sure he is satisfied in bed, whenever he wants it he gets it because I am always in the mood. I told him about my new vibrator in hopes of him saying he’d use it on me or something of the sort and he said “don’t piss me off”. I don’t understand if I’ve done something specifically wrong or maybe a previous partner did ? I went quiet and just said “toys are friends” lol and he said “that’s what they all say” and Im incredibly confused. Im very open minded sexually and thought he was too but now Im thinking he only wants me to get pleasure from him, but he is rarely in the mood. This might be an insecurity thing ? In any case I don’t know if anyone else has had this issue with a partner but how do you ease them into it, or show them toys are nothing to be angry about ?
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r/NoStupidQuestions I a 19 year old female own a few vibrators, and my boyfriend is incredibly uncomfortable by it. I just told him I bought a new vibrator, and he got actually angry with me. For context I always make sure he is satisfied in bed, whenever he wants it he gets it because I am always in the mood. I told him about my new vibrator in hopes of him saying he’d use it on me or something of the sort and he said “don’t piss me off”. I don’t understand if I’ve done something specifically wrong or maybe a previous partner did ? I went quiet and just said “toys are friends” lol and he said “that’s what they all say” and Im incredibly confused. Im very open minded sexually and thought he was too but now Im thinking he only wants me to get pleasure from him, but he is rarely in the mood. This might be an insecurity thing ? In any case I don’t know if anyone else has had this issue with a partner but how do you ease them into it, or show them toys are nothing to be angry about ? submitted by /u/Rosieneedshelp [link] [comments]
I a 19 year old female own a few vibrators, and my boyfriend is incredibly uncomfortable by it. I just told him I bought a new vibrator, and he got actually angry with me. For context I always make sure he is satisfied in bed, whenever he wants it he gets it because I am always in the mood. I told him about my new vibrator in hopes of him saying he’d use it on me or something of the sort and he said “don’t piss me off”. I don’t understand if I’ve done something specifically wrong or maybe a previous partner did ? I went quiet and just said “toys are friends” lol and he said “that’s what they all say” and Im incredibly confused. Im very open minded sexually and thought he was too but now Im thinking he only wants me to get pleasure from him, but he is rarely in the mood. This might be an insecurity thing ? In any case I don’t know if anyone else has had this issue with a partner but how do you ease them into it, or show them toys are nothing to be angry about ?
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