Im a virgin. Recently started seeing this girl and last weekend after a few months of being together we went away to a hotel. She mentioned how she’d like to sleep with me when I’m ready and I decided I was ready so went for it.
It was all great, I touched her a lot, went down on her and she says she really enjoyed it. It came to penetration, I put a condom on and we decided it would be easier if she put me inside her. But everytime she went to do it she said it was too soft. We tried 2 more times that night and the same issue happened.
I’ve read these stories before but never thought it would happen to me. She was really nice about it and we were even joking about it so it wasn’t bad but I was still embarrassed as I really like her.
I’m now overthinking that this will be an ongoing issue and I’m paranoid I can’t fix it. When we’re kissing I get hard (I think) I’m not sure how hard I need to be for penetration but she’s felt me while kissing and she’s like that’s enough, goes to get on top and it goes away, happened everytime.
We are going away again soon so am planning on trying again and I’m nervous. I’ve bought thinner condoms as with the previous ones they were too thick and I couldn’t feel anything (her touching me).
Does anyone else have any other advice? Is this normal has anyone else been through this and sorted the issue??? Any advice would be appreciated!
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r/sex Im a virgin. Recently started seeing this girl and last weekend after a few months of being together we went away to a hotel. She mentioned how she’d like to sleep with me when I’m ready and I decided I was ready so went for it. It was all great, I touched her a lot, went down on her and she says she really enjoyed it. It came to penetration, I put a condom on and we decided it would be easier if she put me inside her. But everytime she went to do it she said it was too soft. We tried 2 more times that night and the same issue happened. I’ve read these stories before but never thought it would happen to me. She was really nice about it and we were even joking about it so it wasn’t bad but I was still embarrassed as I really like her. I’m now overthinking that this will be an ongoing issue and I’m paranoid I can’t fix it. When we’re kissing I get hard (I think) I’m not sure how hard I need to be for penetration but she’s felt me while kissing and she’s like that’s enough, goes to get on top and it goes away, happened everytime. We are going away again soon so am planning on trying again and I’m nervous. I’ve bought thinner condoms as with the previous ones they were too thick and I couldn’t feel anything (her touching me). Does anyone else have any other advice? Is this normal has anyone else been through this and sorted the issue??? Any advice would be appreciated! submitted by /u/Feeling-Sad112 [link] [comments]
Im a virgin. Recently started seeing this girl and last weekend after a few months of being together we went away to a hotel. She mentioned how she’d like to sleep with me when I’m ready and I decided I was ready so went for it.
It was all great, I touched her a lot, went down on her and she says she really enjoyed it. It came to penetration, I put a condom on and we decided it would be easier if she put me inside her. But everytime she went to do it she said it was too soft. We tried 2 more times that night and the same issue happened.
I’ve read these stories before but never thought it would happen to me. She was really nice about it and we were even joking about it so it wasn’t bad but I was still embarrassed as I really like her.
I’m now overthinking that this will be an ongoing issue and I’m paranoid I can’t fix it. When we’re kissing I get hard (I think) I’m not sure how hard I need to be for penetration but she’s felt me while kissing and she’s like that’s enough, goes to get on top and it goes away, happened everytime.
We are going away again soon so am planning on trying again and I’m nervous. I’ve bought thinner condoms as with the previous ones they were too thick and I couldn’t feel anything (her touching me).
Does anyone else have any other advice? Is this normal has anyone else been through this and sorted the issue??? Any advice would be appreciated!
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