Please help me help my wife have more orgasms. /u/helpmepleasehermore Sex

Hi all. I know this is going to sound like maybe a joke, or lie a humblebrag, but I’m 100% percent sincere, and I don’t know where else to turn for help.

Backstory: my wife and I have been together since 2008 and married since 2012. We have an amazing sex life and still enjoy each other’s bodies very much. We have sex on average twice a week, sometimes a little more, sometimes a little less. As you would expect, not every sexual encounter is mind blowing. Sometimes we are just “maintaining,” so to speak. But often, it is a reality bending, perspective altering experience, and it’s in those times that I want to make it last longer.

I am typically able to last as long as I need to and to achieve orgasm on command. Our typical sexual encounter will result in her having two orgasms, and me have one orgasm while she has her second. We will typically start with foreplay and I will help her get turned on before we switch to oral. She doesn’t enjoy receiving oral as much as she enjoys giving it because she won’t kiss me after I’ve gone down in her, but I don’t mind kissing her after she goes down on me. I enjoy giving her oral, but it’s not necessary for me, as long as she gets what she needs. So typically foreplay will evolve into her going down on me and masturbating at the same time. This is typically when she achieves her first orgasm. After her first orgasm, we switch to intercourse and will go anywhere from a couple minutes to 15-20 minutes, but she is usually able to achieve her second orgasm very quickly after intercourse. I typically orgasm with her during her second orgasm and then we are finished, but other times I have more stamina and want to keep going. Unfortunately she stops trying to have an orgasm after the second one, which is why I typically just orgasm with her. There have been a few occasions where she has had three orgasms, but I could probably count those times on one hand.

My question is, is there a way I could lead my wife into deeper realms of pleasure to have three or more orgasms and make our sexual encounters last longer? Or should I be content with where our sex life is and just keep rolling with it? I want to be clear, I am happy with our sex life, but I feel like she is capable of experiencing so much more pleasure that she’s not allowing herself to reach. Is there something I can do to help her get there?

Thanks in advance.

Hi all. I know this is going to sound like maybe a joke, or lie a humblebrag, but I’m 100% percent sincere, and I don’t know where else to turn for help.

Backstory: my wife and I have been together since 2008 and married since 2012. We have an amazing sex life and still enjoy each other’s bodies very much. We have sex on average twice a week, sometimes a little more, sometimes a little less. As you would expect, not every sexual encounter is mind blowing. Sometimes we are just “maintaining,” so to speak. But often, it is a reality bending, perspective altering experience, and it’s in those times that I want to make it last longer.

I am typically able to last as long as I need to and to achieve orgasm on command. Our typical sexual encounter will result in her having two orgasms, and me have one orgasm while she has her second. We will typically start with foreplay and I will help her get turned on before we switch to oral. She doesn’t enjoy receiving oral as much as she enjoys giving it because she won’t kiss me after I’ve gone down in her, but I don’t mind kissing her after she goes down on me. I enjoy giving her oral, but it’s not necessary for me, as long as she gets what she needs. So typically foreplay will evolve into her going down on me and masturbating at the same time. This is typically when she achieves her first orgasm. After her first orgasm, we switch to intercourse and will go anywhere from a couple minutes to 15-20 minutes, but she is usually able to achieve her second orgasm very quickly after intercourse. I typically orgasm with her during her second orgasm and then we are finished, but other times I have more stamina and want to keep going. Unfortunately she stops trying to have an orgasm after the second one, which is why I typically just orgasm with her. There have been a few occasions where she has had three orgasms, but I could probably count those times on one hand.

My question is, is there a way I could lead my wife into deeper realms of pleasure to have three or more orgasms and make our sexual encounters last longer? Or should I be content with where our sex life is and just keep rolling with it? I want to be clear, I am happy with our sex life, but I feel like she is capable of experiencing so much more pleasure that she’s not allowing herself to reach. Is there something I can do to help her get there?

Thanks in advance.