Preparing anal sex /u/your_sissy_lea Sex

I often can’t do anal sex without an enema and it’s kind of annoying for obvious reasons. I’ve always wondered how someone can do anal sex without preparation or whatsoever, because most of the time when I try to put a finger I feel that there is some unwanted things near the entrance. But at the same time I know that there are people who most of the time have the maybe 15-20 cm of their butt clean and therefore can have fun, and I wondered how to achieve this ? Does anyone have advice plsss 😭

I often can’t do anal sex without an enema and it’s kind of annoying for obvious reasons. I’ve always wondered how someone can do anal sex without preparation or whatsoever, because most of the time when I try to put a finger I feel that there is some unwanted things near the entrance. But at the same time I know that there are people who most of the time have the maybe 15-20 cm of their butt clean and therefore can have fun, and I wondered how to achieve this ? Does anyone have advice plsss 😭