Using a throwaway for obvious reasons.
Me and my girlfriend have been active in bed for about 2 months now and ever since we started getting „touchy” she always refuses to let me give her an orgasm, doesn’t matter how quick or long the build up was, time of day, whether we’re in mine or her bed or whether I’m using fingers or going down on her. It makes me feel very unattractive and rejected whenever she pushes me off when she’s about to cum. I have been unable to maintain an erection because of that whenever we’re about to have penetration and I’m unable to perform in any way for her. Ive mentioned it to her and she just said that she simply doesn’t like the feeling, no matter the circumstances and assured me that she finds me attractive, but I’m just baffled by how can a healthy person not enjoy an orgasm? AFAIK she doesn’t have any past traumas that may have caused such issues. I’ve been feeling extremely frustrated because of it and at this point I’m fearing I might have to end this relationship because of the intimacy issues making me very uncomfortable and frustrated despite the rest of the relationship being absolutely perfect.
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r/sex Using a throwaway for obvious reasons. Me and my girlfriend have been active in bed for about 2 months now and ever since we started getting „touchy” she always refuses to let me give her an orgasm, doesn’t matter how quick or long the build up was, time of day, whether we’re in mine or her bed or whether I’m using fingers or going down on her. It makes me feel very unattractive and rejected whenever she pushes me off when she’s about to cum. I have been unable to maintain an erection because of that whenever we’re about to have penetration and I’m unable to perform in any way for her. Ive mentioned it to her and she just said that she simply doesn’t like the feeling, no matter the circumstances and assured me that she finds me attractive, but I’m just baffled by how can a healthy person not enjoy an orgasm? AFAIK she doesn’t have any past traumas that may have caused such issues. I’ve been feeling extremely frustrated because of it and at this point I’m fearing I might have to end this relationship because of the intimacy issues making me very uncomfortable and frustrated despite the rest of the relationship being absolutely perfect. submitted by /u/sushay321 [link] [comments]
Using a throwaway for obvious reasons.
Me and my girlfriend have been active in bed for about 2 months now and ever since we started getting „touchy” she always refuses to let me give her an orgasm, doesn’t matter how quick or long the build up was, time of day, whether we’re in mine or her bed or whether I’m using fingers or going down on her. It makes me feel very unattractive and rejected whenever she pushes me off when she’s about to cum. I have been unable to maintain an erection because of that whenever we’re about to have penetration and I’m unable to perform in any way for her. Ive mentioned it to her and she just said that she simply doesn’t like the feeling, no matter the circumstances and assured me that she finds me attractive, but I’m just baffled by how can a healthy person not enjoy an orgasm? AFAIK she doesn’t have any past traumas that may have caused such issues. I’ve been feeling extremely frustrated because of it and at this point I’m fearing I might have to end this relationship because of the intimacy issues making me very uncomfortable and frustrated despite the rest of the relationship being absolutely perfect.
submitted by /u/sushay321
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