Is orgasming the only important thing in sex? /u/__IDidAsk__ Sex

So I’ve been with my girlfriend for some time now, both virgins when we started having sex. The issue is that, sometimes she cums, but sometimes she tells me that she doesn’t know if she did or not. Because if she’s close enough it just feels really good and doesn’t realize, and she’s more focused on the whole process and not only on orgasming. She also says that this happens to some friends of her.

Is that true? Can you have good sex without orgasming? Of course it would be better to just get to that point, but maybe because I’m a male I just perceive sex different, but I don’t know if she’s trying to make me feel good or it’s just perception.

So I’ve been with my girlfriend for some time now, both virgins when we started having sex. The issue is that, sometimes she cums, but sometimes she tells me that she doesn’t know if she did or not. Because if she’s close enough it just feels really good and doesn’t realize, and she’s more focused on the whole process and not only on orgasming. She also says that this happens to some friends of her.

Is that true? Can you have good sex without orgasming? Of course it would be better to just get to that point, but maybe because I’m a male I just perceive sex different, but I don’t know if she’s trying to make me feel good or it’s just perception.