my bf can only go for 1 round /u/No_Complaint_7269 Sex

my (21) bf (21) and i have been dating since october. he was my first but he’s already had 7 partners before me and was sexually active. we had our first sex in october and during the first few weeks of our sex life (only had sex once or twice every week since we dont live with each other) it went pretty well. back then, he could still go for 3 rounds, 5-10 mins (idk if that’s enough or just short). but during these recent weeks, he could only finish once. he tells me to give him a minute to rest but he always ends up cuddling and sleeping with me instead. i wanna brush off what i feel but im beginning to feel insecure.

cant guys get hard if they dont find their partner attractive anymore? im more on to the chubby side (5”4, 65kg) but he said chubby girls are his type. i also honestly find my face pretty and he always compliments me that im pretty too. always. maybe our sex life has gotten boring or repetitive for him so he doesn’t have the energy or interest to go on for a couple more rounds. i also dont go fully naked when having sex with him cos i feel a bit insecure with my body but i always wear lingeries, matching bra and panties, only get naked on doggy. and the biggest problem that i could think of is when we first had sex in october up until now, i haven’t been able to cum or orgasm. but doesn’t mean i dont enjoy every second of it, just the thought or the look of him enjoying me and finishing inside me just turns me on. i give him oral 100% before sex and tells me that i give him the best bjs since his past partners couldnt properly give him one. he also used to finger me before sex, but he doesn’t anymore. he also used to give me oral but only thrice.

we talked about a similar problem before. he told me that he wants me to initiate sometimes and switch positions during it. although it took me some time, i finally learned how to get on top so he could somehow rest in between. and till now, im quite improving at it.

i really can’t tell if he’s losing interest in me sexually cos he’s always been the one to initiate it. we make out, he gets hard, i give him oral and finally do it. when we do have sex, i recently started to squeeze him continuously during it cos he’s very vocal about how much he loves it when i squeeze him so i can tell that he’s somehow enjoying it. it gets tiring squeezing it the entire time but it’s the most i can do if i cant cum, just to make sure he feels good about it.

what can i do to resolve this?

i know that i have to talk to him about this and i will surely do but im still trying to find the perfect time for it and meanwhile know everyone’s thoughts and opinions about my situation. thank you! 🙂

my (21) bf (21) and i have been dating since october. he was my first but he’s already had 7 partners before me and was sexually active. we had our first sex in october and during the first few weeks of our sex life (only had sex once or twice every week since we dont live with each other) it went pretty well. back then, he could still go for 3 rounds, 5-10 mins (idk if that’s enough or just short). but during these recent weeks, he could only finish once. he tells me to give him a minute to rest but he always ends up cuddling and sleeping with me instead. i wanna brush off what i feel but im beginning to feel insecure.

cant guys get hard if they dont find their partner attractive anymore? im more on to the chubby side (5”4, 65kg) but he said chubby girls are his type. i also honestly find my face pretty and he always compliments me that im pretty too. always. maybe our sex life has gotten boring or repetitive for him so he doesn’t have the energy or interest to go on for a couple more rounds. i also dont go fully naked when having sex with him cos i feel a bit insecure with my body but i always wear lingeries, matching bra and panties, only get naked on doggy. and the biggest problem that i could think of is when we first had sex in october up until now, i haven’t been able to cum or orgasm. but doesn’t mean i dont enjoy every second of it, just the thought or the look of him enjoying me and finishing inside me just turns me on. i give him oral 100% before sex and tells me that i give him the best bjs since his past partners couldnt properly give him one. he also used to finger me before sex, but he doesn’t anymore. he also used to give me oral but only thrice.

we talked about a similar problem before. he told me that he wants me to initiate sometimes and switch positions during it. although it took me some time, i finally learned how to get on top so he could somehow rest in between. and till now, im quite improving at it.

i really can’t tell if he’s losing interest in me sexually cos he’s always been the one to initiate it. we make out, he gets hard, i give him oral and finally do it. when we do have sex, i recently started to squeeze him continuously during it cos he’s very vocal about how much he loves it when i squeeze him so i can tell that he’s somehow enjoying it. it gets tiring squeezing it the entire time but it’s the most i can do if i cant cum, just to make sure he feels good about it.

what can i do to resolve this?

i know that i have to talk to him about this and i will surely do but im still trying to find the perfect time for it and meanwhile know everyone’s thoughts and opinions about my situation. thank you! 🙂