Me (32M) and my friend (32F) hooked up because she had recently went through a break up with her partner. She would mention things about their sex life mainly things that her old partner wouldn’t do and wasn’t good at. She would complain that he took awhile to have an orgasm for her and he got bored of sex so they wouldn’t have it all the time. These are fair statements because that’s her opinion and I wouldn’t know prior so I took her word for it. About two months ago we hook up and she has a banging body and I’m excited. We start having sex and I notice she’s very dry which is fine so she says that she puts THC lubricant on her vagina so we do that but it doesn’t do much but she thinks it’s normal so i just roll with it. Keep in mind this is 30 seconds into sex.. so we’re at the two minute mark and she starts to orgasm which is great then boom she rolls over and says “ you haven’t came yet?” No multi orgasm I’m shocked at this point because how could she think I would I orgasm in that time frame. She says she will do doggy style for me to orgasm like it’s a chore. I’m thinking in my brain (she’s treating me like I’m the problem for actually wanting to enjoy sex) I have one of those get it over with orgasms quickly and she rolls back over and starts snoring so loud. The next morning she talks about how great the sex was because she orgasmed fast and I’m just going along with it. She tells me that she usually masterbates with two vibrators. One inside and one outside and she cums in 1 minute. I asked about her having sex for longer or masterbating for longer and she pretty much said there’s no point really and the only way for her to have a multi orgasm is if she drunk or on Rec drugs. Now I see why the bedroom died and why her ex stopped having sex. Who would want to continually have sex with someone that just cums in two minutes, rolls over and snores, no real decent enjoyment of each other, and thinks they are normal and others are wrong. I don’t know how to offer my friend sexual feedback…. How would y’all approach this with a woman that doesn’t know at 31 years old
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r/sex Me (32M) and my friend (32F) hooked up because she had recently went through a break up with her partner. She would mention things about their sex life mainly things that her old partner wouldn’t do and wasn’t good at. She would complain that he took awhile to have an orgasm for her and he got bored of sex so they wouldn’t have it all the time. These are fair statements because that’s her opinion and I wouldn’t know prior so I took her word for it. About two months ago we hook up and she has a banging body and I’m excited. We start having sex and I notice she’s very dry which is fine so she says that she puts THC lubricant on her vagina so we do that but it doesn’t do much but she thinks it’s normal so i just roll with it. Keep in mind this is 30 seconds into sex.. so we’re at the two minute mark and she starts to orgasm which is great then boom she rolls over and says “ you haven’t came yet?” No multi orgasm I’m shocked at this point because how could she think I would I orgasm in that time frame. She says she will do doggy style for me to orgasm like it’s a chore. I’m thinking in my brain (she’s treating me like I’m the problem for actually wanting to enjoy sex) I have one of those get it over with orgasms quickly and she rolls back over and starts snoring so loud. The next morning she talks about how great the sex was because she orgasmed fast and I’m just going along with it. She tells me that she usually masterbates with two vibrators. One inside and one outside and she cums in 1 minute. I asked about her having sex for longer or masterbating for longer and she pretty much said there’s no point really and the only way for her to have a multi orgasm is if she drunk or on Rec drugs. Now I see why the bedroom died and why her ex stopped having sex. Who would want to continually have sex with someone that just cums in two minutes, rolls over and snores, no real decent enjoyment of each other, and thinks they are normal and others are wrong. I don’t know how to offer my friend sexual feedback…. How would y’all approach this with a woman that doesn’t know at 31 years old submitted by /u/bvbreus [link] [comments]
Me (32M) and my friend (32F) hooked up because she had recently went through a break up with her partner. She would mention things about their sex life mainly things that her old partner wouldn’t do and wasn’t good at. She would complain that he took awhile to have an orgasm for her and he got bored of sex so they wouldn’t have it all the time. These are fair statements because that’s her opinion and I wouldn’t know prior so I took her word for it. About two months ago we hook up and she has a banging body and I’m excited. We start having sex and I notice she’s very dry which is fine so she says that she puts THC lubricant on her vagina so we do that but it doesn’t do much but she thinks it’s normal so i just roll with it. Keep in mind this is 30 seconds into sex.. so we’re at the two minute mark and she starts to orgasm which is great then boom she rolls over and says “ you haven’t came yet?” No multi orgasm I’m shocked at this point because how could she think I would I orgasm in that time frame. She says she will do doggy style for me to orgasm like it’s a chore. I’m thinking in my brain (she’s treating me like I’m the problem for actually wanting to enjoy sex) I have one of those get it over with orgasms quickly and she rolls back over and starts snoring so loud. The next morning she talks about how great the sex was because she orgasmed fast and I’m just going along with it. She tells me that she usually masterbates with two vibrators. One inside and one outside and she cums in 1 minute. I asked about her having sex for longer or masterbating for longer and she pretty much said there’s no point really and the only way for her to have a multi orgasm is if she drunk or on Rec drugs. Now I see why the bedroom died and why her ex stopped having sex. Who would want to continually have sex with someone that just cums in two minutes, rolls over and snores, no real decent enjoyment of each other, and thinks they are normal and others are wrong. I don’t know how to offer my friend sexual feedback…. How would y’all approach this with a woman that doesn’t know at 31 years old
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