We’re both new at this sex thing and it’s been difficult because he can’t fully get inside because he says i tense up down there. I know it takes a lot of practice but it’s just very stressful for me and I end up making excuses to avoid it which isn’t helping.
Anyways, something else I noticed is a challenge for us in that when we’re in the act of sex it is so hard for me to get wet and aroused. It’s weird if he’s just kissing me and I know we’re not having sex I’ll get wet but when we’re doing foreplay it’s very hard for me to feel aroused and into it.
The only thing that helps me get aroused is him fingering me down there. The only problem is once I feel aroused and wet enough, he loses his erection so we need to give him a handjob to get him ready. In this time I then dry out and the cycle just repeats. How do we ensure we both are ready for penetration? I tried yesterday giving him a handjob/playing with his penis when he was fingering me and touching my clit but it was hard for me to do both. I kinda wanted to focus on myself first.
How do I stay wet and he has an erection so we’re both ready for PIV?
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r/sex We’re both new at this sex thing and it’s been difficult because he can’t fully get inside because he says i tense up down there. I know it takes a lot of practice but it’s just very stressful for me and I end up making excuses to avoid it which isn’t helping. Anyways, something else I noticed is a challenge for us in that when we’re in the act of sex it is so hard for me to get wet and aroused. It’s weird if he’s just kissing me and I know we’re not having sex I’ll get wet but when we’re doing foreplay it’s very hard for me to feel aroused and into it. The only thing that helps me get aroused is him fingering me down there. The only problem is once I feel aroused and wet enough, he loses his erection so we need to give him a handjob to get him ready. In this time I then dry out and the cycle just repeats. How do we ensure we both are ready for penetration? I tried yesterday giving him a handjob/playing with his penis when he was fingering me and touching my clit but it was hard for me to do both. I kinda wanted to focus on myself first. How do I stay wet and he has an erection so we’re both ready for PIV? submitted by /u/punjeetjab [link] [comments]
We’re both new at this sex thing and it’s been difficult because he can’t fully get inside because he says i tense up down there. I know it takes a lot of practice but it’s just very stressful for me and I end up making excuses to avoid it which isn’t helping.
Anyways, something else I noticed is a challenge for us in that when we’re in the act of sex it is so hard for me to get wet and aroused. It’s weird if he’s just kissing me and I know we’re not having sex I’ll get wet but when we’re doing foreplay it’s very hard for me to feel aroused and into it.
The only thing that helps me get aroused is him fingering me down there. The only problem is once I feel aroused and wet enough, he loses his erection so we need to give him a handjob to get him ready. In this time I then dry out and the cycle just repeats. How do we ensure we both are ready for penetration? I tried yesterday giving him a handjob/playing with his penis when he was fingering me and touching my clit but it was hard for me to do both. I kinda wanted to focus on myself first.
How do I stay wet and he has an erection so we’re both ready for PIV?
submitted by /u/punjeetjab
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