I 20(f) don’t know how to bring up my sexual needs to my boyfriend (20m). My boyfriend and I have a very active sex life. We go at it at least once a day, often more. He’s fantastic in bed and I really enjoy sex with him but I have one complaint- he doesn’t seem to try and make me finish. Like he will focus on me for a good while and I’ll shift my attention to making him feel good and finish and as soon as he finishes he’s done- he’ll either pass out or go talk to his roommate or something. It’s like he forgets I would enjoy finishing too. It’s been a few weeks since I’ve solidly been able to finish and it’s leaving me very frustrated. I can’t tell if he thinks I’ve finished, forgets, or just doesn’t care. (I think the last one is relatively unlikely just based on how he is through every other aspect of our relationship) How do I bring this up to him? I need to figure it out soon because it’s started negatively impacting my mood after. TIA.
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r/sex I 20(f) don’t know how to bring up my sexual needs to my boyfriend (20m). My boyfriend and I have a very active sex life. We go at it at least once a day, often more. He’s fantastic in bed and I really enjoy sex with him but I have one complaint- he doesn’t seem to try and make me finish. Like he will focus on me for a good while and I’ll shift my attention to making him feel good and finish and as soon as he finishes he’s done- he’ll either pass out or go talk to his roommate or something. It’s like he forgets I would enjoy finishing too. It’s been a few weeks since I’ve solidly been able to finish and it’s leaving me very frustrated. I can’t tell if he thinks I’ve finished, forgets, or just doesn’t care. (I think the last one is relatively unlikely just based on how he is through every other aspect of our relationship) How do I bring this up to him? I need to figure it out soon because it’s started negatively impacting my mood after. TIA. submitted by /u/noconnectionstome [link] [comments]
I 20(f) don’t know how to bring up my sexual needs to my boyfriend (20m). My boyfriend and I have a very active sex life. We go at it at least once a day, often more. He’s fantastic in bed and I really enjoy sex with him but I have one complaint- he doesn’t seem to try and make me finish. Like he will focus on me for a good while and I’ll shift my attention to making him feel good and finish and as soon as he finishes he’s done- he’ll either pass out or go talk to his roommate or something. It’s like he forgets I would enjoy finishing too. It’s been a few weeks since I’ve solidly been able to finish and it’s leaving me very frustrated. I can’t tell if he thinks I’ve finished, forgets, or just doesn’t care. (I think the last one is relatively unlikely just based on how he is through every other aspect of our relationship) How do I bring this up to him? I need to figure it out soon because it’s started negatively impacting my mood after. TIA.
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