I can only think of my ex sexually. /u/RandomDudeThrowAway2 Sex

So I (M) broke up with my ex (F) around a year ago, we’ve had some backtracks, but now it’s over for good.

The problem is that for the past year I almost exclusively think about her when I take care of bussiness by myself. And it gets even worse when I meet someone that is obviously interested in me sexually and I find it impossible to reciprocate these feelings.

I feel disconnected from everyone I meet (when it comes to anything romantic), and ungrateful since I have had quite a few opportunities and passed on almost all of them. And the one time I didn’t, I forced myself to try to move on. Which for various didn’t work.

I can’t stop thinking about her in that way, and I don’t know how to move on.

Any ideas of how to change that? I really feel like there’s something wrong with me.

So I (M) broke up with my ex (F) around a year ago, we’ve had some backtracks, but now it’s over for good.

The problem is that for the past year I almost exclusively think about her when I take care of bussiness by myself. And it gets even worse when I meet someone that is obviously interested in me sexually and I find it impossible to reciprocate these feelings.

I feel disconnected from everyone I meet (when it comes to anything romantic), and ungrateful since I have had quite a few opportunities and passed on almost all of them. And the one time I didn’t, I forced myself to try to move on. Which for various didn’t work.

I can’t stop thinking about her in that way, and I don’t know how to move on.

Any ideas of how to change that? I really feel like there’s something wrong with me.