my gf has an iud but still makes me pullout which is fine however she told me that both her previous partners often finished inside but never lets me although it’s something ive expressed i would enjoy from time to time. granted her previous relationships were pretty toxic and one down right mentally abusive and she said she doesn’t like the feeling and only let them as she was in a bad/desperate mental state at the time and i assume she’s putting this boundary with me because for once she’s actually comfortable with a sexual partner. obviously id never pressure or anything however part of the back of my mind does get eaten away with thoughts like damn she let these assholes do things to her that i, the first bf to give her a healthy relationship, am not allowed to. not sure if this is some form of retroactive jealousy but part of my heart does hurt thinking about it. the worst of the thoughts tell me she enjoyed when they did it but not me. our relationship as a whole is incredibly positive and something we both cherish but i find these thoughts piercing my heart at night sometimes and wanted to gather any of your thoughts.
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r/sex my gf has an iud but still makes me pullout which is fine however she told me that both her previous partners often finished inside but never lets me although it’s something ive expressed i would enjoy from time to time. granted her previous relationships were pretty toxic and one down right mentally abusive and she said she doesn’t like the feeling and only let them as she was in a bad/desperate mental state at the time and i assume she’s putting this boundary with me because for once she’s actually comfortable with a sexual partner. obviously id never pressure or anything however part of the back of my mind does get eaten away with thoughts like damn she let these assholes do things to her that i, the first bf to give her a healthy relationship, am not allowed to. not sure if this is some form of retroactive jealousy but part of my heart does hurt thinking about it. the worst of the thoughts tell me she enjoyed when they did it but not me. our relationship as a whole is incredibly positive and something we both cherish but i find these thoughts piercing my heart at night sometimes and wanted to gather any of your thoughts. submitted by /u/Powerful_Board_6330 [link] [comments]
my gf has an iud but still makes me pullout which is fine however she told me that both her previous partners often finished inside but never lets me although it’s something ive expressed i would enjoy from time to time. granted her previous relationships were pretty toxic and one down right mentally abusive and she said she doesn’t like the feeling and only let them as she was in a bad/desperate mental state at the time and i assume she’s putting this boundary with me because for once she’s actually comfortable with a sexual partner. obviously id never pressure or anything however part of the back of my mind does get eaten away with thoughts like damn she let these assholes do things to her that i, the first bf to give her a healthy relationship, am not allowed to. not sure if this is some form of retroactive jealousy but part of my heart does hurt thinking about it. the worst of the thoughts tell me she enjoyed when they did it but not me. our relationship as a whole is incredibly positive and something we both cherish but i find these thoughts piercing my heart at night sometimes and wanted to gather any of your thoughts.
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