I (38M) and my girlfriend (34F) have been together for two months. Last night she told me she wants to explore bondage and CNC. I Will admit that I am not super experienced with this so I started doing my research. We established a safe word and boundaries. My hangup is that I’m concerned that I will accidentally hurt her physically or emotionally. My biggest concern though is she was a victim of SA in the past. She is in counseling for this. I want to take things slowly and she has agreed to this. I just don’t want to retraumatize my girlfriend. Her mental state is important to me.
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r/sex I (38M) and my girlfriend (34F) have been together for two months. Last night she told me she wants to explore bondage and CNC. I Will admit that I am not super experienced with this so I started doing my research. We established a safe word and boundaries. My hangup is that I’m concerned that I will accidentally hurt her physically or emotionally. My biggest concern though is she was a victim of SA in the past. She is in counseling for this. I want to take things slowly and she has agreed to this. I just don’t want to retraumatize my girlfriend. Her mental state is important to me. submitted by /u/Least-Turn-1050 [link] [comments]
I (38M) and my girlfriend (34F) have been together for two months. Last night she told me she wants to explore bondage and CNC. I Will admit that I am not super experienced with this so I started doing my research. We established a safe word and boundaries. My hangup is that I’m concerned that I will accidentally hurt her physically or emotionally. My biggest concern though is she was a victim of SA in the past. She is in counseling for this. I want to take things slowly and she has agreed to this. I just don’t want to retraumatize my girlfriend. Her mental state is important to me.
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