So my boyfriend and I have been together over 6 years now. After a few issues in the first year together, our sex life was healthy and regular – at least every other day. This was the case until after our baby was born almost 2 years ago, he’s just not interested! I’ve been feeling really frustrated, naturally, and had vocalised how this was bothering me.
He did the usual “I’m just tired, I think my sex drive has gone” blah blah. We had even discussed spicing things up a bit and he seemed really keen, but still nothing! Once a week to 10 days at best, which I know is better than nothing, but I really enjoy it.
So to now… I’ve caught him on porn and masturbating to it. Plus his instagram algorithm is full of women jiggling their butts and boobs around, with seductive captions.. OF girls.
I told him it made me feel like he didn’t want me anymore, but that I understood men look at porn and masturbate. I explained I don’t mind as long as it doesn’t interfere with our sex life… But that I would quite like him to at least clean up his instagram algorithm. He agreed but his instagram is still full of OF girls.
He is choosing to masturbate over physical intimacy with me and it really hurts, especially as he says he does it because it’s “easier”.
Am I being too unreasonable to ask him to perhaps prioritise our intimacy? I can feel us drifting further apart and I’m not sure what else I can do.
Apologies if there are any typos – juggling a toddler as I write this 😅
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r/sex So my boyfriend and I have been together over 6 years now. After a few issues in the first year together, our sex life was healthy and regular – at least every other day. This was the case until after our baby was born almost 2 years ago, he’s just not interested! I’ve been feeling really frustrated, naturally, and had vocalised how this was bothering me. He did the usual “I’m just tired, I think my sex drive has gone” blah blah. We had even discussed spicing things up a bit and he seemed really keen, but still nothing! Once a week to 10 days at best, which I know is better than nothing, but I really enjoy it. So to now… I’ve caught him on porn and masturbating to it. Plus his instagram algorithm is full of women jiggling their butts and boobs around, with seductive captions.. OF girls. I told him it made me feel like he didn’t want me anymore, but that I understood men look at porn and masturbate. I explained I don’t mind as long as it doesn’t interfere with our sex life… But that I would quite like him to at least clean up his instagram algorithm. He agreed but his instagram is still full of OF girls. He is choosing to masturbate over physical intimacy with me and it really hurts, especially as he says he does it because it’s “easier”. Am I being too unreasonable to ask him to perhaps prioritise our intimacy? I can feel us drifting further apart and I’m not sure what else I can do. Apologies if there are any typos – juggling a toddler as I write this 😅 submitted by /u/NaiveDot3 [link] [comments]
So my boyfriend and I have been together over 6 years now. After a few issues in the first year together, our sex life was healthy and regular – at least every other day. This was the case until after our baby was born almost 2 years ago, he’s just not interested! I’ve been feeling really frustrated, naturally, and had vocalised how this was bothering me.
He did the usual “I’m just tired, I think my sex drive has gone” blah blah. We had even discussed spicing things up a bit and he seemed really keen, but still nothing! Once a week to 10 days at best, which I know is better than nothing, but I really enjoy it.
So to now… I’ve caught him on porn and masturbating to it. Plus his instagram algorithm is full of women jiggling their butts and boobs around, with seductive captions.. OF girls.
I told him it made me feel like he didn’t want me anymore, but that I understood men look at porn and masturbate. I explained I don’t mind as long as it doesn’t interfere with our sex life… But that I would quite like him to at least clean up his instagram algorithm. He agreed but his instagram is still full of OF girls.
He is choosing to masturbate over physical intimacy with me and it really hurts, especially as he says he does it because it’s “easier”.
Am I being too unreasonable to ask him to perhaps prioritise our intimacy? I can feel us drifting further apart and I’m not sure what else I can do.
Apologies if there are any typos – juggling a toddler as I write this 😅
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