My (f28) boyfriend (m30) of 1 year cannot initiate intimacy.
We are both incredibly busy with work and live 45 minutes apart, so typically we have one sleepover per week (6pm Wednesday- 11am Thursday). We really look forward to this day throughout the week since we have so little time to spend together.
On the days we don’t see each other, he will often text me about how he wants to have more sex, AS DO I. But when Wednesday rolls around and we’re cuddled up in bed and half-dressed, neither of us initiate. We will sometimes touch and flirt but end up falling asleep without completing the task. And then the following morning, we’re both too groggy to even make an attempt as we get ready for work.
For reference, he likes to be more dominate in bed and that has hindered my confidence to make a move.
When we drink, we will have sex multiple times. How do we break this pattern?
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r/sex My (f28) boyfriend (m30) of 1 year cannot initiate intimacy. We are both incredibly busy with work and live 45 minutes apart, so typically we have one sleepover per week (6pm Wednesday- 11am Thursday). We really look forward to this day throughout the week since we have so little time to spend together. On the days we don’t see each other, he will often text me about how he wants to have more sex, AS DO I. But when Wednesday rolls around and we’re cuddled up in bed and half-dressed, neither of us initiate. We will sometimes touch and flirt but end up falling asleep without completing the task. And then the following morning, we’re both too groggy to even make an attempt as we get ready for work. For reference, he likes to be more dominate in bed and that has hindered my confidence to make a move. When we drink, we will have sex multiple times. How do we break this pattern? submitted by /u/srirachawhilecamping [link] [comments]
My (f28) boyfriend (m30) of 1 year cannot initiate intimacy.
We are both incredibly busy with work and live 45 minutes apart, so typically we have one sleepover per week (6pm Wednesday- 11am Thursday). We really look forward to this day throughout the week since we have so little time to spend together.
On the days we don’t see each other, he will often text me about how he wants to have more sex, AS DO I. But when Wednesday rolls around and we’re cuddled up in bed and half-dressed, neither of us initiate. We will sometimes touch and flirt but end up falling asleep without completing the task. And then the following morning, we’re both too groggy to even make an attempt as we get ready for work.
For reference, he likes to be more dominate in bed and that has hindered my confidence to make a move.
When we drink, we will have sex multiple times. How do we break this pattern?
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