Title, I’m 23, M, and a virgin. I’m fairly handsome (I hope) have good social skills, and friendly, as I’m told by coworkers. I’m mainly a virgin due to working long shifts for the past couple of years, and being an introvert, for the past couple of years my life is go to work, come home, eat, watch some YouTube and go to bed, weekends I stay in, do some chores and mentally prepare for the work week.
I feel like I’ll never break out of this cycle and be a virgin forever. I over hear co workers and their sex experiences and talk about being with a virgin boyfriend or hookup and how much of a massive red flag or turn off it is.
If so, how do I lose it? While I have good social skills, they aren’t good enough to the point where I can do a cold approach (and even then, where? I don’t want to bother anyone) and online feels like a waste of time, and even apps that are straight to the point, like Grindr….feel kinda gross? Good for the people that are on there, but I feel like I at least have to know them first and be some sort of connection, at the very least FWB
Another big reason for me wanting to lose it and get experience is to make a future partner happy, especially since they might have experience I don’t want to be a disappointment and want to please them.
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r/sex Title, I’m 23, M, and a virgin. I’m fairly handsome (I hope) have good social skills, and friendly, as I’m told by coworkers. I’m mainly a virgin due to working long shifts for the past couple of years, and being an introvert, for the past couple of years my life is go to work, come home, eat, watch some YouTube and go to bed, weekends I stay in, do some chores and mentally prepare for the work week. I feel like I’ll never break out of this cycle and be a virgin forever. I over hear co workers and their sex experiences and talk about being with a virgin boyfriend or hookup and how much of a massive red flag or turn off it is. If so, how do I lose it? While I have good social skills, they aren’t good enough to the point where I can do a cold approach (and even then, where? I don’t want to bother anyone) and online feels like a waste of time, and even apps that are straight to the point, like Grindr….feel kinda gross? Good for the people that are on there, but I feel like I at least have to know them first and be some sort of connection, at the very least FWB Another big reason for me wanting to lose it and get experience is to make a future partner happy, especially since they might have experience I don’t want to be a disappointment and want to please them. submitted by /u/Chief_1187 [link] [comments]
Title, I’m 23, M, and a virgin. I’m fairly handsome (I hope) have good social skills, and friendly, as I’m told by coworkers. I’m mainly a virgin due to working long shifts for the past couple of years, and being an introvert, for the past couple of years my life is go to work, come home, eat, watch some YouTube and go to bed, weekends I stay in, do some chores and mentally prepare for the work week.
I feel like I’ll never break out of this cycle and be a virgin forever. I over hear co workers and their sex experiences and talk about being with a virgin boyfriend or hookup and how much of a massive red flag or turn off it is.
If so, how do I lose it? While I have good social skills, they aren’t good enough to the point where I can do a cold approach (and even then, where? I don’t want to bother anyone) and online feels like a waste of time, and even apps that are straight to the point, like Grindr….feel kinda gross? Good for the people that are on there, but I feel like I at least have to know them first and be some sort of connection, at the very least FWB
Another big reason for me wanting to lose it and get experience is to make a future partner happy, especially since they might have experience I don’t want to be a disappointment and want to please them.
submitted by /u/Chief_1187
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