My boyfriend and I are starting to explore the back door… /u/Commercial_Taro_5656 Sex

I never thought this was something I would be comfortable with, but a month and a half in and somehow this man I decided to date, even though I notoriously dont date, makes me feel comfortable enough to explore the idea.

I genuinely enjoyed it a lot. We didn’t have full on anal sex, but he fingered me and I was so surprised by how much I liked it.

That being said, as he does after almost every new sexual adventure we have, he is checking in to see if I enjoyed it, if there’s anything that could be better or he could do more or less of, etc. I appreciate this communication from him so much because it gives me the chance to ask the same question to make sure im doing well too.

So I did return the question… And I’m getting nervous. I feel like he may ask me to return the favor, but he also said once that I can grab his ass but do nothing more. Sometimes, I will admit and this is something Im keeping my eye on, I feel like he will immediately overdo the “I would nevers” when he actually would do it… I mean, dude once commented while we were watching a movie that he would never have sex in a public restroom, but I would say having a quickie in a private restroom in a public place comes pretty damn close.

Anyway, I have zero idea what im doing when it comes to anal. Zero. Never once thought about it with intentions on learning about it. Now that I know how it feels, I want to be able to return the favor, but it freaks me out if im being honest. I just feel hypocritical to ask him to continue doing it, even though hes the one that wanted to, if I can’t do it back if he would like that.

So, how do I educate myself? How do I get more comfortable with the idea? TIA for any suggestions!

I never thought this was something I would be comfortable with, but a month and a half in and somehow this man I decided to date, even though I notoriously dont date, makes me feel comfortable enough to explore the idea.

I genuinely enjoyed it a lot. We didn’t have full on anal sex, but he fingered me and I was so surprised by how much I liked it.

That being said, as he does after almost every new sexual adventure we have, he is checking in to see if I enjoyed it, if there’s anything that could be better or he could do more or less of, etc. I appreciate this communication from him so much because it gives me the chance to ask the same question to make sure im doing well too.

So I did return the question… And I’m getting nervous. I feel like he may ask me to return the favor, but he also said once that I can grab his ass but do nothing more. Sometimes, I will admit and this is something Im keeping my eye on, I feel like he will immediately overdo the “I would nevers” when he actually would do it… I mean, dude once commented while we were watching a movie that he would never have sex in a public restroom, but I would say having a quickie in a private restroom in a public place comes pretty damn close.

Anyway, I have zero idea what im doing when it comes to anal. Zero. Never once thought about it with intentions on learning about it. Now that I know how it feels, I want to be able to return the favor, but it freaks me out if im being honest. I just feel hypocritical to ask him to continue doing it, even though hes the one that wanted to, if I can’t do it back if he would like that.

So, how do I educate myself? How do I get more comfortable with the idea? TIA for any suggestions!