My husband has a surgical/medical/mouth mask fetish and is only fully aroused when I wear a mask or watching porn with masks. I don’t want to hurt his feelings but I think he is overstimulated and addicted to porn and his fetish. /u/Miserable_District43 Sex

Hi 33 F here, me and my husband have been happily married with kids for the last 5 years and dating the last 8 years.

A year or two before we got married, we were holidaying in Japan (I am asian but not Japanese) and I caught the flu. I bought a mask and started wearing it. Needless to say he was very aroused during that trip almost constantly as I was wearing the mask when I was in public. He confessed to me during that trip that he had a fetish for women in mouth masks particularly surgical masks that covered the nose and mouth. He said he had this fetish for years since he was a kid.

I at first thought it was a joke and it’s because we were in Japan at the time (half the women wear masks constantly there in the winter) or he just liked covering up my face (maybe he considered me more ugly or wanted to imagine himself with someone else) but NO! He showed me his porn collection and he literally has 1000s of photos and videos of I would say adult content of women wearing medical masks.

We had sex maybe 2-3 times a day over the course of a week. (we were in our mid-20s mind you). That’s when we started having sex with me wearing a medical mask (I didn’t mind it at all even though I find it weird; it’s ultimately a harmless fetish).

He would often pull down the mask mid-sex to kiss and even sometimes finish on my masked face (one of the perks of the fetish! It’s very clean). Nothing degrading, never anything that caused my physical pain or stress. (I do not like rough/painful sex)

Fast forward 7 years (and after 2 kids), and he’s still super into me but I feel like the amount of times we have sex regularly is way down (like once a week if I am not having my period). I am still recovering after a year plus post partum after having our second child, while he is still hard as he was when he was in his early 20s. I AM NOT in the mood to fuck like a college student anymore and on occasion we fight about this.

This has caused my husband to get addicted to porn. He doesn’t even watch regular porn, he watches exclusively porn where a woman wears a medical mask. He got even more addicted through out covid due to the covid related porn content they were pumping out and I think he subconsciously got more aroused by seeing masked women all the time. He literally jerks beside me every night before we go to bed while watching medical mask porn.

As a result, every time we have sex he tried to do the most he can to make it satisfying for him which usually involves me wearing a mask or doing some roleplay where I wear a mask. I don’t HATE IT, but after a while it feels weird?

My husband is a great father and a pretty caring husband, but I feel concerned by his porn addiction and physically/mentally I can’t attend to his insane sex drive and specific fetishes all time.

Hi 33 F here, me and my husband have been happily married with kids for the last 5 years and dating the last 8 years.

A year or two before we got married, we were holidaying in Japan (I am asian but not Japanese) and I caught the flu. I bought a mask and started wearing it. Needless to say he was very aroused during that trip almost constantly as I was wearing the mask when I was in public. He confessed to me during that trip that he had a fetish for women in mouth masks particularly surgical masks that covered the nose and mouth. He said he had this fetish for years since he was a kid.

I at first thought it was a joke and it’s because we were in Japan at the time (half the women wear masks constantly there in the winter) or he just liked covering up my face (maybe he considered me more ugly or wanted to imagine himself with someone else) but NO! He showed me his porn collection and he literally has 1000s of photos and videos of I would say adult content of women wearing medical masks.

We had sex maybe 2-3 times a day over the course of a week. (we were in our mid-20s mind you). That’s when we started having sex with me wearing a medical mask (I didn’t mind it at all even though I find it weird; it’s ultimately a harmless fetish).

He would often pull down the mask mid-sex to kiss and even sometimes finish on my masked face (one of the perks of the fetish! It’s very clean). Nothing degrading, never anything that caused my physical pain or stress. (I do not like rough/painful sex)

Fast forward 7 years (and after 2 kids), and he’s still super into me but I feel like the amount of times we have sex regularly is way down (like once a week if I am not having my period). I am still recovering after a year plus post partum after having our second child, while he is still hard as he was when he was in his early 20s. I AM NOT in the mood to fuck like a college student anymore and on occasion we fight about this.

This has caused my husband to get addicted to porn. He doesn’t even watch regular porn, he watches exclusively porn where a woman wears a medical mask. He got even more addicted through out covid due to the covid related porn content they were pumping out and I think he subconsciously got more aroused by seeing masked women all the time. He literally jerks beside me every night before we go to bed while watching medical mask porn.

As a result, every time we have sex he tried to do the most he can to make it satisfying for him which usually involves me wearing a mask or doing some roleplay where I wear a mask. I don’t HATE IT, but after a while it feels weird?

My husband is a great father and a pretty caring husband, but I feel concerned by his porn addiction and physically/mentally I can’t attend to his insane sex drive and specific fetishes all time.