How can I use more variety while giving a blowjob /u/AnonConfessor-Chan Sex

I figure my wording is a bit weird, but I do not know how else to put it.

I am in a relationship for quite some time now and I love sucking my boyfriends dick. He is also my very first one, so I have not a lot of experience as you can imagine.

By now I have tried to use my tongue as much as possible, tried to focus on the head or either go for the balls, use my hands, etc. And while he does say he enjoys it, he never cums from it. In fact, I cannot make him cum no matter what I do (same for handjobs).

So I ask the men or reddit, or ladies with more experience than me, what is your advice? I try to go slow, I try applying more force, I feel like I have tried as much as possible and honestly I enjoy it, but I also feel a little sad that while he does enjoy it he does not seem very expressive. I do know that cumming is not persay an indicator of anything, but still.

Also, I have tried asking him what I could do differently, but he said he does not really know, so :/ (mind you though, he does encourage me to work on my technique so I am at wits end).

I figure my wording is a bit weird, but I do not know how else to put it.

I am in a relationship for quite some time now and I love sucking my boyfriends dick. He is also my very first one, so I have not a lot of experience as you can imagine.

By now I have tried to use my tongue as much as possible, tried to focus on the head or either go for the balls, use my hands, etc. And while he does say he enjoys it, he never cums from it. In fact, I cannot make him cum no matter what I do (same for handjobs).

So I ask the men or reddit, or ladies with more experience than me, what is your advice? I try to go slow, I try applying more force, I feel like I have tried as much as possible and honestly I enjoy it, but I also feel a little sad that while he does enjoy it he does not seem very expressive. I do know that cumming is not persay an indicator of anything, but still.

Also, I have tried asking him what I could do differently, but he said he does not really know, so :/ (mind you though, he does encourage me to work on my technique so I am at wits end).