My wife is desperate to make me cum from oral alone. I need help. /u/This_is_me2024 Sex

Using my throwaway. I’m 31m and she’s 31f. Lately she’s been REALLY into the idea of making me cum from oral. In my life, it’s happened exactly twice from exclusively oral, and I was a lot younger (19 and 24)

But she won’t take that for an answer. Don’t get me wrong, I love this shit. This, is, awesome. But now I’m so in my head I end up getting soft, no matter how it feels. Like I end up getting close to finishing, I can almost feel it starting. But then it rescides, and I soften.

I love her, I love that she’s willing to do this awesome, totally unselfish act. I want it to continue. But I can see her getting discouraged. I can see the disappointment when she suggests I jerk myself off. And then, because she’s a trooper, she STILL swallows. I get to the edge, and she tips me over.

She’s been great, we tease, we do all the things that turn me on. She’s taken feedback, she’s adjusted, she does everything right and it feels amazing. But I just can’t get over the line. She’s even tried sticking a knuckle in my ass. That felt good too but again, went soft.

I think I’m just in my head so much. I might suggest we 69 or something, maybe the distraction will help me. Just, get me out of my own way?

Any other men have the same issue? What did you do if anything that helped you get over the hump?

Using my throwaway. I’m 31m and she’s 31f. Lately she’s been REALLY into the idea of making me cum from oral. In my life, it’s happened exactly twice from exclusively oral, and I was a lot younger (19 and 24)

But she won’t take that for an answer. Don’t get me wrong, I love this shit. This, is, awesome. But now I’m so in my head I end up getting soft, no matter how it feels. Like I end up getting close to finishing, I can almost feel it starting. But then it rescides, and I soften.

I love her, I love that she’s willing to do this awesome, totally unselfish act. I want it to continue. But I can see her getting discouraged. I can see the disappointment when she suggests I jerk myself off. And then, because she’s a trooper, she STILL swallows. I get to the edge, and she tips me over.

She’s been great, we tease, we do all the things that turn me on. She’s taken feedback, she’s adjusted, she does everything right and it feels amazing. But I just can’t get over the line. She’s even tried sticking a knuckle in my ass. That felt good too but again, went soft.

I think I’m just in my head so much. I might suggest we 69 or something, maybe the distraction will help me. Just, get me out of my own way?

Any other men have the same issue? What did you do if anything that helped you get over the hump?