My boyfriend (36 m) and I (28 f) have been together for almost 3 years. When we met, it took him longer to finish then what I was used too, but would have great sex with both of us finishing. I have endometriosis, so there is pain involved with it but it was manageable and if I was in pain I would blow him and he would finish. Fast forward till now, he has to take a lot of breaks, and when he does take a break, I try to blow him or get on top. His penis also has been starting to get irritated a lot, even with good lube and spit, which also causes him to take breaks more often. We will initiate something and we will keep trying and it can take days. There is something about him finishing that gives me this confidence the next time we have sex, but it’s been months since has finished within the same day. He gets frustrated and then I end up getting frustrated which has caused some issues. On top of me being frustrated because he is, I will eventually starting being in pain at the 25 min mark, and he will go for like 30 – 35 min before he takes a break. Then he goes again after 5 min, and it just ends up being painful and in my head I just wish it will be over which is obviously not the hugest turn on. Is there anything I can be doing to help fix this?
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r/sex My boyfriend (36 m) and I (28 f) have been together for almost 3 years. When we met, it took him longer to finish then what I was used too, but would have great sex with both of us finishing. I have endometriosis, so there is pain involved with it but it was manageable and if I was in pain I would blow him and he would finish. Fast forward till now, he has to take a lot of breaks, and when he does take a break, I try to blow him or get on top. His penis also has been starting to get irritated a lot, even with good lube and spit, which also causes him to take breaks more often. We will initiate something and we will keep trying and it can take days. There is something about him finishing that gives me this confidence the next time we have sex, but it’s been months since has finished within the same day. He gets frustrated and then I end up getting frustrated which has caused some issues. On top of me being frustrated because he is, I will eventually starting being in pain at the 25 min mark, and he will go for like 30 – 35 min before he takes a break. Then he goes again after 5 min, and it just ends up being painful and in my head I just wish it will be over which is obviously not the hugest turn on. Is there anything I can be doing to help fix this? submitted by /u/Visible-Nerve-6719 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (36 m) and I (28 f) have been together for almost 3 years. When we met, it took him longer to finish then what I was used too, but would have great sex with both of us finishing. I have endometriosis, so there is pain involved with it but it was manageable and if I was in pain I would blow him and he would finish. Fast forward till now, he has to take a lot of breaks, and when he does take a break, I try to blow him or get on top. His penis also has been starting to get irritated a lot, even with good lube and spit, which also causes him to take breaks more often. We will initiate something and we will keep trying and it can take days. There is something about him finishing that gives me this confidence the next time we have sex, but it’s been months since has finished within the same day. He gets frustrated and then I end up getting frustrated which has caused some issues. On top of me being frustrated because he is, I will eventually starting being in pain at the 25 min mark, and he will go for like 30 – 35 min before he takes a break. Then he goes again after 5 min, and it just ends up being painful and in my head I just wish it will be over which is obviously not the hugest turn on. Is there anything I can be doing to help fix this?
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