How can I make my GF initiate a BJ? /u/W0nderingSoul Sex

I’m (19M) together with my girlfriend (19F) for almost a year and even tho we are both very horny almost everytime we meet each other (~5 times a week) we always want to have sex, but never do it because our parents are always at home. That’s the first part I need advice on. How to have sex with parents at home, because she moans a bit loud and the penetration is also loud😅

The second part I need advice on: Even tho we have little sex, we always make out and it’s fun and all, I give her oral, we do other stuff that’s not as loud as sex etc.., but she only gave me a bj once while I had a condom on (we are extra safe, it’s our first relationship and we both value safe sex a lot), however I almost couldn’t feel anything due to the condom which took almost all the pleasure away. During sex I don’t mind a condom at all. In the last few weeks she’s saying almost everyday how she wants to give me a bj, but she only keeps telling it and gets horny from the imagination but doesn’t actually do it. I’m actually looking forward to it, but I feel like she’s too shy to initiate it. Is there a way I can help her? Because I know that she genuinely wants to do it, but I feel like she needs me to do something for it. Any advice?

I’m (19M) together with my girlfriend (19F) for almost a year and even tho we are both very horny almost everytime we meet each other (~5 times a week) we always want to have sex, but never do it because our parents are always at home. That’s the first part I need advice on. How to have sex with parents at home, because she moans a bit loud and the penetration is also loud😅

The second part I need advice on: Even tho we have little sex, we always make out and it’s fun and all, I give her oral, we do other stuff that’s not as loud as sex etc.., but she only gave me a bj once while I had a condom on (we are extra safe, it’s our first relationship and we both value safe sex a lot), however I almost couldn’t feel anything due to the condom which took almost all the pleasure away. During sex I don’t mind a condom at all. In the last few weeks she’s saying almost everyday how she wants to give me a bj, but she only keeps telling it and gets horny from the imagination but doesn’t actually do it. I’m actually looking forward to it, but I feel like she’s too shy to initiate it. Is there a way I can help her? Because I know that she genuinely wants to do it, but I feel like she needs me to do something for it. Any advice?