Is it worth asking my friend to be FWB ? If so, how? /u/CroissantLizard Sex

I (25F) have been insanely attracted to my friend (25M) and I’m not gonna lie Ive fantasising about him a lot. I have no romantic feelings towards him or anything like that, but from my perspective at least, we have a strong sexual tension. I think also we built a lot of trust I want to explore my sexuality with him as I don’t like one night stands.

We’ve been hanging out at my place quite often recently. We both mentioned previously that we’re looking for a casual relationship of FWB type of thing as we don’t want a relationship atm. He’s mentioned so many times (unprompted) that he’s okay with being intimate with friends, and that it doesn’t change the friendship, which to me felt like a bit of a hint maybe?

I thought about initiating some physical closeness and allowing for things to evolve naturally. But I didn’t want to put him in an uncomfortable position at my place. I also don’t want him to get the wrong idea that I may have feelings for him, especially that a lot of his female friends had feelings for him and it made him uncomfortable.

I also thought about a direct approach where I could directly ask if he’s interested, but I’m worried it will feel forced and kill the vibe. Also worried it will put him on the spot and make things uncomfortable.

Is it worth the risk? How would you approach it in this case?

I (25F) have been insanely attracted to my friend (25M) and I’m not gonna lie Ive fantasising about him a lot. I have no romantic feelings towards him or anything like that, but from my perspective at least, we have a strong sexual tension. I think also we built a lot of trust I want to explore my sexuality with him as I don’t like one night stands.

We’ve been hanging out at my place quite often recently. We both mentioned previously that we’re looking for a casual relationship of FWB type of thing as we don’t want a relationship atm. He’s mentioned so many times (unprompted) that he’s okay with being intimate with friends, and that it doesn’t change the friendship, which to me felt like a bit of a hint maybe?

I thought about initiating some physical closeness and allowing for things to evolve naturally. But I didn’t want to put him in an uncomfortable position at my place. I also don’t want him to get the wrong idea that I may have feelings for him, especially that a lot of his female friends had feelings for him and it made him uncomfortable.

I also thought about a direct approach where I could directly ask if he’s interested, but I’m worried it will feel forced and kill the vibe. Also worried it will put him on the spot and make things uncomfortable.

Is it worth the risk? How would you approach it in this case?