For a few months now, and especially even more so lately, I’ve found myself longing and fantasizing about just making out. I’ve always enjoyed kissing and making out with my boyfriend, but we rarely actually make out, it’s usually just a few kisses every so often and thats it. (Btw we’ve been together for almost 3 years now, I’m 21F and he’s 27M) But recently I’ve found myself just wanting to like literally suck each other’s faces off. I want to make out so sloppily with him to the point our faces are wet with each other. I want there to almost be more tongue than lips happening. I just feel such a desperate need to do this with him but the problem is that we hardly ever make out and when we do he never uses tongue at all… I feel like because of this there’s no way he would go for the sloppy make out sessions that I so badly want. At the beginning of our relationship we made out a lot, and he’d use tongue then, but after some point both those things just kinda stopped happening. I’ve brought stuff like this up before with him but because of my low libido most of the times nothing ends up coming out of the conversations. I’ve had other kinks and things I’ve tried out with him that I’ve enjoyed before, but I’ve never felt so desperate to do any of those things as I am to just primally make out with him. I kind of feel silly for wanting it because I feel like I sound like a horny teenager lol.
Does anyone have any ideas on what I could do to possibly just initiate the make out session in the first place? (If I started kissing him trying to lead to making out he usually pulls away after the kiss starts deepening and will say ‘Woah’ or something of the sorts before doing something else and abandoning the kissing) Maybe I just need to be more straightforward if he tries to pull away and bring him in again and kiss him harder? He has no problems getting intimate so I know that isn’t why he pulls away. I don’t know, I just feel like I need to scratch this itch because I can’t shake the excitement it gives me just thinking about kissing him in this way. I’ve even leaned towards watching videos on pornhub of couples sloppily making out and it turns me on so much. I wish I could express this to him without feeling guilty about it due to my low libido and the possibility of disappointing him because I’ve brought up things I wanted to try before but by the time we got a chance to have sex, I wasn’t in the mood anymore. I just don’t want to bring this up just for it to be another possible disappointment to him.
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r/sex For a few months now, and especially even more so lately, I’ve found myself longing and fantasizing about just making out. I’ve always enjoyed kissing and making out with my boyfriend, but we rarely actually make out, it’s usually just a few kisses every so often and thats it. (Btw we’ve been together for almost 3 years now, I’m 21F and he’s 27M) But recently I’ve found myself just wanting to like literally suck each other’s faces off. I want to make out so sloppily with him to the point our faces are wet with each other. I want there to almost be more tongue than lips happening. I just feel such a desperate need to do this with him but the problem is that we hardly ever make out and when we do he never uses tongue at all… I feel like because of this there’s no way he would go for the sloppy make out sessions that I so badly want. At the beginning of our relationship we made out a lot, and he’d use tongue then, but after some point both those things just kinda stopped happening. I’ve brought stuff like this up before with him but because of my low libido most of the times nothing ends up coming out of the conversations. I’ve had other kinks and things I’ve tried out with him that I’ve enjoyed before, but I’ve never felt so desperate to do any of those things as I am to just primally make out with him. I kind of feel silly for wanting it because I feel like I sound like a horny teenager lol. Does anyone have any ideas on what I could do to possibly just initiate the make out session in the first place? (If I started kissing him trying to lead to making out he usually pulls away after the kiss starts deepening and will say ‘Woah’ or something of the sorts before doing something else and abandoning the kissing) Maybe I just need to be more straightforward if he tries to pull away and bring him in again and kiss him harder? He has no problems getting intimate so I know that isn’t why he pulls away. I don’t know, I just feel like I need to scratch this itch because I can’t shake the excitement it gives me just thinking about kissing him in this way. I’ve even leaned towards watching videos on pornhub of couples sloppily making out and it turns me on so much. I wish I could express this to him without feeling guilty about it due to my low libido and the possibility of disappointing him because I’ve brought up things I wanted to try before but by the time we got a chance to have sex, I wasn’t in the mood anymore. I just don’t want to bring this up just for it to be another possible disappointment to him. submitted by /u/idk0968 [link] [comments]
For a few months now, and especially even more so lately, I’ve found myself longing and fantasizing about just making out. I’ve always enjoyed kissing and making out with my boyfriend, but we rarely actually make out, it’s usually just a few kisses every so often and thats it. (Btw we’ve been together for almost 3 years now, I’m 21F and he’s 27M) But recently I’ve found myself just wanting to like literally suck each other’s faces off. I want to make out so sloppily with him to the point our faces are wet with each other. I want there to almost be more tongue than lips happening. I just feel such a desperate need to do this with him but the problem is that we hardly ever make out and when we do he never uses tongue at all… I feel like because of this there’s no way he would go for the sloppy make out sessions that I so badly want. At the beginning of our relationship we made out a lot, and he’d use tongue then, but after some point both those things just kinda stopped happening. I’ve brought stuff like this up before with him but because of my low libido most of the times nothing ends up coming out of the conversations. I’ve had other kinks and things I’ve tried out with him that I’ve enjoyed before, but I’ve never felt so desperate to do any of those things as I am to just primally make out with him. I kind of feel silly for wanting it because I feel like I sound like a horny teenager lol.
Does anyone have any ideas on what I could do to possibly just initiate the make out session in the first place? (If I started kissing him trying to lead to making out he usually pulls away after the kiss starts deepening and will say ‘Woah’ or something of the sorts before doing something else and abandoning the kissing) Maybe I just need to be more straightforward if he tries to pull away and bring him in again and kiss him harder? He has no problems getting intimate so I know that isn’t why he pulls away. I don’t know, I just feel like I need to scratch this itch because I can’t shake the excitement it gives me just thinking about kissing him in this way. I’ve even leaned towards watching videos on pornhub of couples sloppily making out and it turns me on so much. I wish I could express this to him without feeling guilty about it due to my low libido and the possibility of disappointing him because I’ve brought up things I wanted to try before but by the time we got a chance to have sex, I wasn’t in the mood anymore. I just don’t want to bring this up just for it to be another possible disappointment to him.
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