sex life has gone down hill /u/fckkdiizii Sex

i (19m) been with my gf (18f) for about a year and a half.

when we first got tg, our sex life was a great. we would do it multiple times a day and i could keep on going and going

recently tho, my sex performance has been shit. we dont have sex as often as we used to but we still do a good amount (like 3 times a week). but sometimes i orgasm really quickly out of nowhere. like it doesnt feel like it builds up anymore, it just suddenly comes and then i go soft.

now ik its normal for orgasms to cause men to soft, but this would never happen. i wouldnt ejaculate so quick, i used to be able to last 7-15 mins but now its like 2-3. my gf rly likes riding on top and this seems to be the only positons where she finishes, but when im not fully erect its the hardest position to keep the d in. when in missionary or doggy, i can keep it in even if it’ll take a min or two to get fully hard. its cause my gf to cry once but i assured her its not her. i find ger very attractive and im always down to do the deed.

now what pisses me off the most is that i get random boners VERY often. like 10+ a day. and my gf always notices and laughs. even if i kiss her and touch her boob ill get hard. idk why i cant stay hard the one time i rly need to

for some background info, i smoke vapes, which yes ik a lot of ppl think is lame, me and gf both do it. i am overweight, and sometimes i get stressed but not like crazy. i read the obesity and smoking can cause ED but ive been smoking for like 3 years and been this weight for even longer. why is this just happening now and not before when i was able to fuck like no tomorrow?

i (19m) been with my gf (18f) for about a year and a half.

when we first got tg, our sex life was a great. we would do it multiple times a day and i could keep on going and going

recently tho, my sex performance has been shit. we dont have sex as often as we used to but we still do a good amount (like 3 times a week). but sometimes i orgasm really quickly out of nowhere. like it doesnt feel like it builds up anymore, it just suddenly comes and then i go soft.

now ik its normal for orgasms to cause men to soft, but this would never happen. i wouldnt ejaculate so quick, i used to be able to last 7-15 mins but now its like 2-3. my gf rly likes riding on top and this seems to be the only positons where she finishes, but when im not fully erect its the hardest position to keep the d in. when in missionary or doggy, i can keep it in even if it’ll take a min or two to get fully hard. its cause my gf to cry once but i assured her its not her. i find ger very attractive and im always down to do the deed.

now what pisses me off the most is that i get random boners VERY often. like 10+ a day. and my gf always notices and laughs. even if i kiss her and touch her boob ill get hard. idk why i cant stay hard the one time i rly need to

for some background info, i smoke vapes, which yes ik a lot of ppl think is lame, me and gf both do it. i am overweight, and sometimes i get stressed but not like crazy. i read the obesity and smoking can cause ED but ive been smoking for like 3 years and been this weight for even longer. why is this just happening now and not before when i was able to fuck like no tomorrow?