Advice needed
Me (35F) and my husband (37M) recently bought a fleshlight to introduce to our bedroom. I want to start off by saying I am very open with my partner, and I genuinely don’t mind introducing toys for me or him.
What I do have a little bit of struggle with is seeing how much he wants to enjoy his new toy outside of sex together. Like on the couch, we could use it while watching TV. Or just for fun before bed, which he’s never been into before as far as like a blowie or my hand. The last straw for me was when he mentioned how much he’s going to masturbate now because we have this dang fleshlight. For YEARS (literally), he hasn’t masturbated. And he would tell me, again, judgement free zone in my house and I think we’re both just tired because we have 3 children under 5 and don’t have time to masturbate. But I feel ridiculous saying this, but part of me is a teeny-bit jealous of the toy and I don’t want to bring it up and turn him off from me, but I also can’t live with the idea that he’d use the toys without me more than he would sleep with me.
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r/sex Advice needed Me (35F) and my husband (37M) recently bought a fleshlight to introduce to our bedroom. I want to start off by saying I am very open with my partner, and I genuinely don’t mind introducing toys for me or him. What I do have a little bit of struggle with is seeing how much he wants to enjoy his new toy outside of sex together. Like on the couch, we could use it while watching TV. Or just for fun before bed, which he’s never been into before as far as like a blowie or my hand. The last straw for me was when he mentioned how much he’s going to masturbate now because we have this dang fleshlight. For YEARS (literally), he hasn’t masturbated. And he would tell me, again, judgement free zone in my house and I think we’re both just tired because we have 3 children under 5 and don’t have time to masturbate. But I feel ridiculous saying this, but part of me is a teeny-bit jealous of the toy and I don’t want to bring it up and turn him off from me, but I also can’t live with the idea that he’d use the toys without me more than he would sleep with me. submitted by /u/Secret_vibe [link] [comments]
Advice needed
Me (35F) and my husband (37M) recently bought a fleshlight to introduce to our bedroom. I want to start off by saying I am very open with my partner, and I genuinely don’t mind introducing toys for me or him.
What I do have a little bit of struggle with is seeing how much he wants to enjoy his new toy outside of sex together. Like on the couch, we could use it while watching TV. Or just for fun before bed, which he’s never been into before as far as like a blowie or my hand. The last straw for me was when he mentioned how much he’s going to masturbate now because we have this dang fleshlight. For YEARS (literally), he hasn’t masturbated. And he would tell me, again, judgement free zone in my house and I think we’re both just tired because we have 3 children under 5 and don’t have time to masturbate. But I feel ridiculous saying this, but part of me is a teeny-bit jealous of the toy and I don’t want to bring it up and turn him off from me, but I also can’t live with the idea that he’d use the toys without me more than he would sleep with me.
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