I haven’t experienced this in a few partners but I am worried about giving and not receiving. Is it rude to ask him to give me oral or make it known I expect it? I’ve never had to ask before. Or maybe he’s just not into it and I should just take his lack of action as his choice?
We’ve been dating for about 2 weeks and have had sex a few times. I think we’re definitely still learning and finding our groove sexually. It’s fun but there’s definitely lots of room for growth. I really enjoy giving head and find it a massive turn on. I wanted to give him head a few times we had sex but I was worried, he never initiated going down on me and also didn’t ask me for head so I didn’t know if he doesn’t like it or something. But I feel like I would like oral to be a part of my sex life, I just never had to like formally ask for it so I’m feeling awkward. I really just wanna suck his dick tho omggg. He put his fingers in my mouth a couple times and that was fun but idk I feel like he’s taking it too slow or maybe it’s my fault I’m honestly not sure what’s happening right now.
Would it be better to just like take the lead the next time we have sex? And should I ask him for head first or like tell him to come eat me or is it a better idea to go down on him first? Or is it more appropriate to ask about expectations first? I know I may be overthinking I’ve just never been in this situation 😭
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r/sex I haven’t experienced this in a few partners but I am worried about giving and not receiving. Is it rude to ask him to give me oral or make it known I expect it? I’ve never had to ask before. Or maybe he’s just not into it and I should just take his lack of action as his choice? We’ve been dating for about 2 weeks and have had sex a few times. I think we’re definitely still learning and finding our groove sexually. It’s fun but there’s definitely lots of room for growth. I really enjoy giving head and find it a massive turn on. I wanted to give him head a few times we had sex but I was worried, he never initiated going down on me and also didn’t ask me for head so I didn’t know if he doesn’t like it or something. But I feel like I would like oral to be a part of my sex life, I just never had to like formally ask for it so I’m feeling awkward. I really just wanna suck his dick tho omggg. He put his fingers in my mouth a couple times and that was fun but idk I feel like he’s taking it too slow or maybe it’s my fault I’m honestly not sure what’s happening right now. Would it be better to just like take the lead the next time we have sex? And should I ask him for head first or like tell him to come eat me or is it a better idea to go down on him first? Or is it more appropriate to ask about expectations first? I know I may be overthinking I’ve just never been in this situation 😭 submitted by /u/DebtExtra5960 [link] [comments]
I haven’t experienced this in a few partners but I am worried about giving and not receiving. Is it rude to ask him to give me oral or make it known I expect it? I’ve never had to ask before. Or maybe he’s just not into it and I should just take his lack of action as his choice?
We’ve been dating for about 2 weeks and have had sex a few times. I think we’re definitely still learning and finding our groove sexually. It’s fun but there’s definitely lots of room for growth. I really enjoy giving head and find it a massive turn on. I wanted to give him head a few times we had sex but I was worried, he never initiated going down on me and also didn’t ask me for head so I didn’t know if he doesn’t like it or something. But I feel like I would like oral to be a part of my sex life, I just never had to like formally ask for it so I’m feeling awkward. I really just wanna suck his dick tho omggg. He put his fingers in my mouth a couple times and that was fun but idk I feel like he’s taking it too slow or maybe it’s my fault I’m honestly not sure what’s happening right now.
Would it be better to just like take the lead the next time we have sex? And should I ask him for head first or like tell him to come eat me or is it a better idea to go down on him first? Or is it more appropriate to ask about expectations first? I know I may be overthinking I’ve just never been in this situation 😭
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