Hello everyone! I’m here with a sex related concern. I was a virgin until recently I lost my virginity to my bf (who’s now my ex). We had sex a few times but couldn’t for the first 2 months since my kitty wasn’t opening up, it wasn’t even letting his finger inside, let alone his dick. After a lot of struggle, 2 months of trying, it went in but I felt burning and tearing and just pain. He did it a few times more but i didn’t orgasm from it because I think he wasn’t hitting the right spot. Also he hardly did foreplay.. Anyways now we have broken up and I’ve had no sex since a year. I was wondering would i be “loose” as I’ve seen on the internet people say if you have sex you just get loose… I wouldn’t want that to happen just yet when I’m still young, when I’ve hardly had sex (only 1 partner ever). I’ve seen people say do kegal exercises? But idk if it’s the right thing for me to do. Should I be worried for my future partner? (P.s I’ve never put anything inside of me, not even my fingers, I’m just scared and Dont know jack pls don’t judge me lol).
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r/sex Hello everyone! I’m here with a sex related concern. I was a virgin until recently I lost my virginity to my bf (who’s now my ex). We had sex a few times but couldn’t for the first 2 months since my kitty wasn’t opening up, it wasn’t even letting his finger inside, let alone his dick. After a lot of struggle, 2 months of trying, it went in but I felt burning and tearing and just pain. He did it a few times more but i didn’t orgasm from it because I think he wasn’t hitting the right spot. Also he hardly did foreplay.. Anyways now we have broken up and I’ve had no sex since a year. I was wondering would i be “loose” as I’ve seen on the internet people say if you have sex you just get loose… I wouldn’t want that to happen just yet when I’m still young, when I’ve hardly had sex (only 1 partner ever). I’ve seen people say do kegal exercises? But idk if it’s the right thing for me to do. Should I be worried for my future partner? (P.s I’ve never put anything inside of me, not even my fingers, I’m just scared and Dont know jack pls don’t judge me lol). submitted by /u/softsoft98 [link] [comments]
Hello everyone! I’m here with a sex related concern. I was a virgin until recently I lost my virginity to my bf (who’s now my ex). We had sex a few times but couldn’t for the first 2 months since my kitty wasn’t opening up, it wasn’t even letting his finger inside, let alone his dick. After a lot of struggle, 2 months of trying, it went in but I felt burning and tearing and just pain. He did it a few times more but i didn’t orgasm from it because I think he wasn’t hitting the right spot. Also he hardly did foreplay.. Anyways now we have broken up and I’ve had no sex since a year. I was wondering would i be “loose” as I’ve seen on the internet people say if you have sex you just get loose… I wouldn’t want that to happen just yet when I’m still young, when I’ve hardly had sex (only 1 partner ever). I’ve seen people say do kegal exercises? But idk if it’s the right thing for me to do. Should I be worried for my future partner? (P.s I’ve never put anything inside of me, not even my fingers, I’m just scared and Dont know jack pls don’t judge me lol).
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