Cant orgasm during sex but I can on my own /u/el200o Sex

looking for some advice pls😬 Recently no matter what I try I (F20) cannot finish while having sex with my boyfriend (M21) I’ve always struggled with it as i’m on anti depressants that i think have rly made it hard to finish but recently i’ve noticed that i have amazing orgasms when i’m just using my hand alone but not when having sex with him. Don’t get me wrong it feels great but i just can’t get to that climax with him. I love him to bits and he turns me on so i don’t know why i’m like this. He try’s lots of different things but it doesn’t change anything. I know this is wrong but recently i’ve just been telling him i finished even if i didn’t because i just can’t be bothered continuing and don’t want to stress him out. It’s got me sort of dreading sex because i just get so frustrated with myself. Is this normal or a sign something could be wrong as I am very sexually attracted to him plus have a high sex drive so i’m confused??

looking for some advice pls😬 Recently no matter what I try I (F20) cannot finish while having sex with my boyfriend (M21) I’ve always struggled with it as i’m on anti depressants that i think have rly made it hard to finish but recently i’ve noticed that i have amazing orgasms when i’m just using my hand alone but not when having sex with him. Don’t get me wrong it feels great but i just can’t get to that climax with him. I love him to bits and he turns me on so i don’t know why i’m like this. He try’s lots of different things but it doesn’t change anything. I know this is wrong but recently i’ve just been telling him i finished even if i didn’t because i just can’t be bothered continuing and don’t want to stress him out. It’s got me sort of dreading sex because i just get so frustrated with myself. Is this normal or a sign something could be wrong as I am very sexually attracted to him plus have a high sex drive so i’m confused??