Did I miss the orgasm?? /u/justforbees Sex

I recently opened up to my partner about the way i masturbate (I never told partners because I thought it was weird). So when we were having sex the most recent time he was doing what I’d do and it felt SO GOOD. But it went from the build up straight to post-orgasm sensitivity. There was no climax. It felt like if I were to finish myself off and keep going so in my mind I think I finished but I didn’t feel myself finish? Why did this happen? How do I actually feel myself climax and not skip over it? I’ve never really finished with a partner so this is definitely the closest I’ve ever gotten but I’m not sure if I got there or not but I really wanna feel myself actually finish!!

I recently opened up to my partner about the way i masturbate (I never told partners because I thought it was weird). So when we were having sex the most recent time he was doing what I’d do and it felt SO GOOD. But it went from the build up straight to post-orgasm sensitivity. There was no climax. It felt like if I were to finish myself off and keep going so in my mind I think I finished but I didn’t feel myself finish? Why did this happen? How do I actually feel myself climax and not skip over it? I’ve never really finished with a partner so this is definitely the closest I’ve ever gotten but I’m not sure if I got there or not but I really wanna feel myself actually finish!!