21F, I discovered how to cum early and it’s the only way I can finish now. I can’t make myself cum by touching myself. I’ve tried many times and I don’t even get close.
Only way I can is by holding myself above the corner of a chair and controlling how much weight I lower onto it, rubbing my pelvis into it. It’s embarrassing and can’t be incorporated into any sexual activity with a person.
The following things have to be in place for me to cum, just so there’s no confusion: 1. I have to be holding myself up, like a standing push-up position 2. No direct contact with my clit, I just rub the top and sides against the chair 3. It’s only something as hard as and shaped like the edge of a chair. That’s why dry humping doesn’t do it
When my bf tries to make me orgasm he fingers me or has tried going down on me. Neither of this things get me anywhere near an orgasm. It’s not his technique; I mean if I can’t even get myself there how can someone who doesn’t know my body get me there?
I have tried re-training how I finish to finish with my fingers and it’s not possible. I’ve tried sex toys. The magic wand, bullet vibe, womanizer, nothing does jack shit. Just my weird, awkward chair method.
Am I just never gonna cum during sex/partner activity? Is there a way I can incorporate this into sex? I feel like I’ll just have to fake orgasms for the rest of my life.
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r/sex 21F, I discovered how to cum early and it’s the only way I can finish now. I can’t make myself cum by touching myself. I’ve tried many times and I don’t even get close. Only way I can is by holding myself above the corner of a chair and controlling how much weight I lower onto it, rubbing my pelvis into it. It’s embarrassing and can’t be incorporated into any sexual activity with a person. The following things have to be in place for me to cum, just so there’s no confusion: 1. I have to be holding myself up, like a standing push-up position 2. No direct contact with my clit, I just rub the top and sides against the chair 3. It’s only something as hard as and shaped like the edge of a chair. That’s why dry humping doesn’t do it When my bf tries to make me orgasm he fingers me or has tried going down on me. Neither of this things get me anywhere near an orgasm. It’s not his technique; I mean if I can’t even get myself there how can someone who doesn’t know my body get me there? I have tried re-training how I finish to finish with my fingers and it’s not possible. I’ve tried sex toys. The magic wand, bullet vibe, womanizer, nothing does jack shit. Just my weird, awkward chair method. Am I just never gonna cum during sex/partner activity? Is there a way I can incorporate this into sex? I feel like I’ll just have to fake orgasms for the rest of my life. submitted by /u/Snowy_Princess_1 [link] [comments]
21F, I discovered how to cum early and it’s the only way I can finish now. I can’t make myself cum by touching myself. I’ve tried many times and I don’t even get close.
Only way I can is by holding myself above the corner of a chair and controlling how much weight I lower onto it, rubbing my pelvis into it. It’s embarrassing and can’t be incorporated into any sexual activity with a person.
The following things have to be in place for me to cum, just so there’s no confusion: 1. I have to be holding myself up, like a standing push-up position 2. No direct contact with my clit, I just rub the top and sides against the chair 3. It’s only something as hard as and shaped like the edge of a chair. That’s why dry humping doesn’t do it
When my bf tries to make me orgasm he fingers me or has tried going down on me. Neither of this things get me anywhere near an orgasm. It’s not his technique; I mean if I can’t even get myself there how can someone who doesn’t know my body get me there?
I have tried re-training how I finish to finish with my fingers and it’s not possible. I’ve tried sex toys. The magic wand, bullet vibe, womanizer, nothing does jack shit. Just my weird, awkward chair method.
Am I just never gonna cum during sex/partner activity? Is there a way I can incorporate this into sex? I feel like I’ll just have to fake orgasms for the rest of my life.
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