This is something that has been an ongoing issue in my relationship that I can’t seem to get right. My girlfriend likes physical touch, I do too. But it seems that she is never happy with the amount I give her; if I get handsy she says it’s too much and she feels i’m over sexualizing her. If I tone it down she says she feels i’m not attracted to her. I’ve asked her what she needs as a happy medium but she hasn’t been able to voice it so i’m at a loss.
On top of that she says she wants me to be more dominant in bed with her and to grab her more during sex which is something I don’t know how to do either? I told her I’ll figure out how to be more dominant and all she said was that’s something that comes naturally. I’m honestly not sure what I need to do to be dominant?? I’ve never had these problems before so i’m not sure where to begin.
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r/sex This is something that has been an ongoing issue in my relationship that I can’t seem to get right. My girlfriend likes physical touch, I do too. But it seems that she is never happy with the amount I give her; if I get handsy she says it’s too much and she feels i’m over sexualizing her. If I tone it down she says she feels i’m not attracted to her. I’ve asked her what she needs as a happy medium but she hasn’t been able to voice it so i’m at a loss. On top of that she says she wants me to be more dominant in bed with her and to grab her more during sex which is something I don’t know how to do either? I told her I’ll figure out how to be more dominant and all she said was that’s something that comes naturally. I’m honestly not sure what I need to do to be dominant?? I’ve never had these problems before so i’m not sure where to begin. submitted by /u/ThisIsMyThrowAway679 [link] [comments]
This is something that has been an ongoing issue in my relationship that I can’t seem to get right. My girlfriend likes physical touch, I do too. But it seems that she is never happy with the amount I give her; if I get handsy she says it’s too much and she feels i’m over sexualizing her. If I tone it down she says she feels i’m not attracted to her. I’ve asked her what she needs as a happy medium but she hasn’t been able to voice it so i’m at a loss.
On top of that she says she wants me to be more dominant in bed with her and to grab her more during sex which is something I don’t know how to do either? I told her I’ll figure out how to be more dominant and all she said was that’s something that comes naturally. I’m honestly not sure what I need to do to be dominant?? I’ve never had these problems before so i’m not sure where to begin.
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