So to start, we have been dating for 2 years now and I did have 2 previous relationships though we didn’t last very long . My current boyfriend is the one who took my virginity after a year and a half but before that, we only did foreplay and oral stuff. He cums everytime I give him head or even a handjob yet when he goes down on me or fingers me, idk I don’t really feel anything? I mean it tickles sometimes but it’s just like feeling something on your skin you know? He just does that for 5 mins which is about the same time when I pleasure him as well. And I just make him stop because it’s not really doing anything and I feel bad tiring him out for nothing. After months of being intimate without actual penetration, and also without me climaxing EVER, I decided maybe I needed penetration to cum? So we did that and it hurt like hell but I didn’t bleed which I thought was wrong, but apparently it’s not uncommon. It also felt like something was hitting my bowel which makes me want to shit myself but not really, it didn’t feel pleasurable AT ALL. We didn’t have sex after that. And I know what pleasure and climaxing feels like because I masturbate a lot like almost everyday atleast once. I guide him to the parts where I usually feel pleasure but it didn’t feel anything. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, am I not attracted to him sexually? But I do get horny when he talks dirty, I just can’t seem to feel pleasure when he’s doing it physically to me. This has been weighing me down alot and I feel like I can never find pleasure in sex.
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r/sex So to start, we have been dating for 2 years now and I did have 2 previous relationships though we didn’t last very long . My current boyfriend is the one who took my virginity after a year and a half but before that, we only did foreplay and oral stuff. He cums everytime I give him head or even a handjob yet when he goes down on me or fingers me, idk I don’t really feel anything? I mean it tickles sometimes but it’s just like feeling something on your skin you know? He just does that for 5 mins which is about the same time when I pleasure him as well. And I just make him stop because it’s not really doing anything and I feel bad tiring him out for nothing. After months of being intimate without actual penetration, and also without me climaxing EVER, I decided maybe I needed penetration to cum? So we did that and it hurt like hell but I didn’t bleed which I thought was wrong, but apparently it’s not uncommon. It also felt like something was hitting my bowel which makes me want to shit myself but not really, it didn’t feel pleasurable AT ALL. We didn’t have sex after that. And I know what pleasure and climaxing feels like because I masturbate a lot like almost everyday atleast once. I guide him to the parts where I usually feel pleasure but it didn’t feel anything. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, am I not attracted to him sexually? But I do get horny when he talks dirty, I just can’t seem to feel pleasure when he’s doing it physically to me. This has been weighing me down alot and I feel like I can never find pleasure in sex. submitted by /u/Extra-Hedgehog-3045 [link] [comments]
So to start, we have been dating for 2 years now and I did have 2 previous relationships though we didn’t last very long . My current boyfriend is the one who took my virginity after a year and a half but before that, we only did foreplay and oral stuff. He cums everytime I give him head or even a handjob yet when he goes down on me or fingers me, idk I don’t really feel anything? I mean it tickles sometimes but it’s just like feeling something on your skin you know? He just does that for 5 mins which is about the same time when I pleasure him as well. And I just make him stop because it’s not really doing anything and I feel bad tiring him out for nothing. After months of being intimate without actual penetration, and also without me climaxing EVER, I decided maybe I needed penetration to cum? So we did that and it hurt like hell but I didn’t bleed which I thought was wrong, but apparently it’s not uncommon. It also felt like something was hitting my bowel which makes me want to shit myself but not really, it didn’t feel pleasurable AT ALL. We didn’t have sex after that. And I know what pleasure and climaxing feels like because I masturbate a lot like almost everyday atleast once. I guide him to the parts where I usually feel pleasure but it didn’t feel anything. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, am I not attracted to him sexually? But I do get horny when he talks dirty, I just can’t seem to feel pleasure when he’s doing it physically to me. This has been weighing me down alot and I feel like I can never find pleasure in sex.
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