Im a F in my early 20’s, I have only actually had an orgasm from guys maybe 3-4 times total in my life (either from finger/clit stimulation or head but takes FOREVER) because I think I get really anxious and in my head but also I think I just need to find what works for me. I don’t own any sex toys but starting to feel like a vibrator during sex will be the only thing to help but also worried that then my chances of having an O naturally are decreased or I may become dependent on it? (feel free to add some suggestions on how to find this out too) but I know I’ve never came from PIV and I’ve had a few long term relationships in the past that tried but unsuccessful.
I’m not the most vocal during but I can tell partners want to make me cum and try their best and are patient but still sometimes just doesn’t happen, I get really close but I don’t finish and i don’t fake it either because I still have fun but I can tell some partners want me to tell them when or if I do during? Do guys get turned on by that? Now that I get older I clearly want to explore more and ultimately enjoy what everyone else is enjoying so I just feel a little lost, I’m pretty shy so I feel bad if I take too long to come from head so how do I get out of this mindset as well to finally have more pleasurable encounters?
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r/sex Im a F in my early 20’s, I have only actually had an orgasm from guys maybe 3-4 times total in my life (either from finger/clit stimulation or head but takes FOREVER) because I think I get really anxious and in my head but also I think I just need to find what works for me. I don’t own any sex toys but starting to feel like a vibrator during sex will be the only thing to help but also worried that then my chances of having an O naturally are decreased or I may become dependent on it? (feel free to add some suggestions on how to find this out too) but I know I’ve never came from PIV and I’ve had a few long term relationships in the past that tried but unsuccessful. I’m not the most vocal during but I can tell partners want to make me cum and try their best and are patient but still sometimes just doesn’t happen, I get really close but I don’t finish and i don’t fake it either because I still have fun but I can tell some partners want me to tell them when or if I do during? Do guys get turned on by that? Now that I get older I clearly want to explore more and ultimately enjoy what everyone else is enjoying so I just feel a little lost, I’m pretty shy so I feel bad if I take too long to come from head so how do I get out of this mindset as well to finally have more pleasurable encounters? submitted by /u/GlitteringGur5006 [link] [comments]
Im a F in my early 20’s, I have only actually had an orgasm from guys maybe 3-4 times total in my life (either from finger/clit stimulation or head but takes FOREVER) because I think I get really anxious and in my head but also I think I just need to find what works for me. I don’t own any sex toys but starting to feel like a vibrator during sex will be the only thing to help but also worried that then my chances of having an O naturally are decreased or I may become dependent on it? (feel free to add some suggestions on how to find this out too) but I know I’ve never came from PIV and I’ve had a few long term relationships in the past that tried but unsuccessful.
I’m not the most vocal during but I can tell partners want to make me cum and try their best and are patient but still sometimes just doesn’t happen, I get really close but I don’t finish and i don’t fake it either because I still have fun but I can tell some partners want me to tell them when or if I do during? Do guys get turned on by that? Now that I get older I clearly want to explore more and ultimately enjoy what everyone else is enjoying so I just feel a little lost, I’m pretty shy so I feel bad if I take too long to come from head so how do I get out of this mindset as well to finally have more pleasurable encounters?
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