We have been dating and living together for 7 months and we have a healthy sex life (6 to 10 times per week). But she doesn’t let me touch her vagina at all. No touching, no fingering, no oral. Our foreplay is just making out and breast kissing which leads to PiV.
She has dropped hints about dealing with trauma in the past. I have been really respectful and understanding of her. Never touched her where she didn’t want to be touched. I communicated everything and made sure she felt comfortable and safe. She says she feels that way too.
However, I’m reaching a point where I think it’s too unfair that she hasn’t orgasmed at least once. I think she is missing out big time. I really want her to experience it by giving her oral or fingering her as foreplay but she doesn’t let me at all.
She said she really enjoys the feeling or gets close enough to where she feels like she has to pee but then it goes away and she is fine with that. It sucks that I’m the only one who orgasms but my girlfriend just gets to “feel good” (in her own words) until I orgasm. I want to do more for her but she is really defensive and I have no idea how to help her open up over time or make her orgasm without touching her vagina with my hands or mouth. Toys are also a big no no for her.
Anyone have any advice or suggestions or am I out of luck?
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r/sex We have been dating and living together for 7 months and we have a healthy sex life (6 to 10 times per week). But she doesn’t let me touch her vagina at all. No touching, no fingering, no oral. Our foreplay is just making out and breast kissing which leads to PiV. She has dropped hints about dealing with trauma in the past. I have been really respectful and understanding of her. Never touched her where she didn’t want to be touched. I communicated everything and made sure she felt comfortable and safe. She says she feels that way too. However, I’m reaching a point where I think it’s too unfair that she hasn’t orgasmed at least once. I think she is missing out big time. I really want her to experience it by giving her oral or fingering her as foreplay but she doesn’t let me at all. She said she really enjoys the feeling or gets close enough to where she feels like she has to pee but then it goes away and she is fine with that. It sucks that I’m the only one who orgasms but my girlfriend just gets to “feel good” (in her own words) until I orgasm. I want to do more for her but she is really defensive and I have no idea how to help her open up over time or make her orgasm without touching her vagina with my hands or mouth. Toys are also a big no no for her. Anyone have any advice or suggestions or am I out of luck? submitted by /u/Galactic_Supernova [link] [comments]
We have been dating and living together for 7 months and we have a healthy sex life (6 to 10 times per week). But she doesn’t let me touch her vagina at all. No touching, no fingering, no oral. Our foreplay is just making out and breast kissing which leads to PiV.
She has dropped hints about dealing with trauma in the past. I have been really respectful and understanding of her. Never touched her where she didn’t want to be touched. I communicated everything and made sure she felt comfortable and safe. She says she feels that way too.
However, I’m reaching a point where I think it’s too unfair that she hasn’t orgasmed at least once. I think she is missing out big time. I really want her to experience it by giving her oral or fingering her as foreplay but she doesn’t let me at all.
She said she really enjoys the feeling or gets close enough to where she feels like she has to pee but then it goes away and she is fine with that. It sucks that I’m the only one who orgasms but my girlfriend just gets to “feel good” (in her own words) until I orgasm. I want to do more for her but she is really defensive and I have no idea how to help her open up over time or make her orgasm without touching her vagina with my hands or mouth. Toys are also a big no no for her.
Anyone have any advice or suggestions or am I out of luck?
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