How do I tell women that I don’t enjoy penetrative sex without making them insecure? /u/Tydrinator21 Sex

I’ve tried searching for someone with this predicament, but it seems to rarely, if ever, come up. Penetrative sex is my absolute least favorite part of sex because I genuinely don’t like how it feels. I love sucking breasts and fingering, I’m 50/50 on oral (both giving and receiving, I definitely prefer giving than receiving, though), but something about penetrating just turns me off completely. Like, I only penetrate because I know she’ll like it, but I’m completely on auto pilot during that part. I feel selfish sexually because I never met a woman who’s happy with just pegging and never receiving penetration herself.

I’ve tried searching for someone with this predicament, but it seems to rarely, if ever, come up. Penetrative sex is my absolute least favorite part of sex because I genuinely don’t like how it feels. I love sucking breasts and fingering, I’m 50/50 on oral (both giving and receiving, I definitely prefer giving than receiving, though), but something about penetrating just turns me off completely. Like, I only penetrate because I know she’ll like it, but I’m completely on auto pilot during that part. I feel selfish sexually because I never met a woman who’s happy with just pegging and never receiving penetration herself.