So I learned the other day that for the first few months we were dating my gf was seeing 4 other dudes. We hadn’t said we were exlusive, but at least on my part (and js my fault) it felt definitely like there was something special there.
Date 3 early on she said she was seeing others, right before we had sex for thr first time. Fair enough. But a month and a half later, I had stopped talking to people, i assumed she did too. But no she was still going on dates. I never did multiple dating.
She told me of just how many other dudes at dinner last week.
My question I think I may need to know is, was she still having sex with others that far along. Like my rule usually is once sex is on the table, we should be really clear if this is a casual thing or not, and that was not the sense I was getting.
If she was sleeping with other dudes, and not using protection, while sleeping with me, there’s just a big gut punch there
We have a wonderful life right now, we are two humans who care for each other, built a house, have a dog, love doing stuff together. I know the go to is to tell people to leave here on reddit. But this is rare to have something like this. I don’t want to fuck it up unnecessarily. But it also hurts a lot to think about her sleeping with other guys like that.
I know she technically didn’t do anything wrong either way. But do I have the right to ask some more questions. She’s very open and honest
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r/sex So I learned the other day that for the first few months we were dating my gf was seeing 4 other dudes. We hadn’t said we were exlusive, but at least on my part (and js my fault) it felt definitely like there was something special there. Date 3 early on she said she was seeing others, right before we had sex for thr first time. Fair enough. But a month and a half later, I had stopped talking to people, i assumed she did too. But no she was still going on dates. I never did multiple dating. She told me of just how many other dudes at dinner last week. My question I think I may need to know is, was she still having sex with others that far along. Like my rule usually is once sex is on the table, we should be really clear if this is a casual thing or not, and that was not the sense I was getting. If she was sleeping with other dudes, and not using protection, while sleeping with me, there’s just a big gut punch there We have a wonderful life right now, we are two humans who care for each other, built a house, have a dog, love doing stuff together. I know the go to is to tell people to leave here on reddit. But this is rare to have something like this. I don’t want to fuck it up unnecessarily. But it also hurts a lot to think about her sleeping with other guys like that. I know she technically didn’t do anything wrong either way. But do I have the right to ask some more questions. She’s very open and honest submitted by /u/SecretaryStill2282 [link] [comments]
So I learned the other day that for the first few months we were dating my gf was seeing 4 other dudes. We hadn’t said we were exlusive, but at least on my part (and js my fault) it felt definitely like there was something special there.
Date 3 early on she said she was seeing others, right before we had sex for thr first time. Fair enough. But a month and a half later, I had stopped talking to people, i assumed she did too. But no she was still going on dates. I never did multiple dating.
She told me of just how many other dudes at dinner last week.
My question I think I may need to know is, was she still having sex with others that far along. Like my rule usually is once sex is on the table, we should be really clear if this is a casual thing or not, and that was not the sense I was getting.
If she was sleeping with other dudes, and not using protection, while sleeping with me, there’s just a big gut punch there
We have a wonderful life right now, we are two humans who care for each other, built a house, have a dog, love doing stuff together. I know the go to is to tell people to leave here on reddit. But this is rare to have something like this. I don’t want to fuck it up unnecessarily. But it also hurts a lot to think about her sleeping with other guys like that.
I know she technically didn’t do anything wrong either way. But do I have the right to ask some more questions. She’s very open and honest
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