So… how exactly does anxiety/nerves/self-consciousness affect your time-til-cumming? /u/TPCid Sex

We’ve all heard the stereotype/joke about the guy getting so nervous about it that he blows within 30 seconds.

But from my (30M) personal experience, it’s the opposite. The more I worry about the issue, the longer I take to cum – leading to inconvenient situtations such as my GF going-down for 20+ minutes without results, til I feel bad and volunteer to finish manually.

My hypothesis is that anxiety simply amplifies whatever issue you have to begin with. In my case, the default problem is taking too long, which is consistent with this framework.

So, what is YOUR experience with anxiety and time taken til cumming? Curious to hear from both guys and girls.

We’ve all heard the stereotype/joke about the guy getting so nervous about it that he blows within 30 seconds.

But from my (30M) personal experience, it’s the opposite. The more I worry about the issue, the longer I take to cum – leading to inconvenient situtations such as my GF going-down for 20+ minutes without results, til I feel bad and volunteer to finish manually.

My hypothesis is that anxiety simply amplifies whatever issue you have to begin with. In my case, the default problem is taking too long, which is consistent with this framework.

So, what is YOUR experience with anxiety and time taken til cumming? Curious to hear from both guys and girls.