So I’m in a fairly new relationship with this guy but we are having sex and he’ll pretty much just go in raw and then when he thinks he’s getting close he’ll put a condom on and finish with it. The first time he did this I was shocked and asked if he had a condom on and he said no and pulled out straight away and assured me it’d be fine like that. He’s already a dad from an accidental pregnancy, plus he used to study medicine and was really involved in the bdsm/orgies/sex work scene when he was younger, so I just kinda trusted that he knew what he was talking about and knew how to be careful in that respect.
But since then I’ve read about pre-cum. I don’t really mind him doing it if it’s safe. I just really can’t fathom that he would risk it after one accidental pregnancy already. He’s also told me that if I were to get pregnant, he personally wouldn’t want to get an abortion for moral reasons or adopt out because it’s “his kid, his responsibility” and he would keep the baby but that ultimately it would be my choice. So with that in mind, I assumed he would put a lot of effort into just not getting me pregnant in the first place.
Are there instances where it would be unlikely for me to get pregnant from pre cum? Why is he so relaxed about it?
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r/sex So I’m in a fairly new relationship with this guy but we are having sex and he’ll pretty much just go in raw and then when he thinks he’s getting close he’ll put a condom on and finish with it. The first time he did this I was shocked and asked if he had a condom on and he said no and pulled out straight away and assured me it’d be fine like that. He’s already a dad from an accidental pregnancy, plus he used to study medicine and was really involved in the bdsm/orgies/sex work scene when he was younger, so I just kinda trusted that he knew what he was talking about and knew how to be careful in that respect. But since then I’ve read about pre-cum. I don’t really mind him doing it if it’s safe. I just really can’t fathom that he would risk it after one accidental pregnancy already. He’s also told me that if I were to get pregnant, he personally wouldn’t want to get an abortion for moral reasons or adopt out because it’s “his kid, his responsibility” and he would keep the baby but that ultimately it would be my choice. So with that in mind, I assumed he would put a lot of effort into just not getting me pregnant in the first place. Are there instances where it would be unlikely for me to get pregnant from pre cum? Why is he so relaxed about it? submitted by /u/Curious-Nothing6234 [link] [comments]
So I’m in a fairly new relationship with this guy but we are having sex and he’ll pretty much just go in raw and then when he thinks he’s getting close he’ll put a condom on and finish with it. The first time he did this I was shocked and asked if he had a condom on and he said no and pulled out straight away and assured me it’d be fine like that. He’s already a dad from an accidental pregnancy, plus he used to study medicine and was really involved in the bdsm/orgies/sex work scene when he was younger, so I just kinda trusted that he knew what he was talking about and knew how to be careful in that respect.
But since then I’ve read about pre-cum. I don’t really mind him doing it if it’s safe. I just really can’t fathom that he would risk it after one accidental pregnancy already. He’s also told me that if I were to get pregnant, he personally wouldn’t want to get an abortion for moral reasons or adopt out because it’s “his kid, his responsibility” and he would keep the baby but that ultimately it would be my choice. So with that in mind, I assumed he would put a lot of effort into just not getting me pregnant in the first place.
Are there instances where it would be unlikely for me to get pregnant from pre cum? Why is he so relaxed about it?
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